idontknow98 Posted November 11, 2013 Posted November 11, 2013 So me and my girlfriend dated for a few months last year but I broke up with her simply because I just didn't want to be in a relationship anymore. Fast forward about 7 months and we get back together. We have been dating again for almost 3 months and everything was going really good until about a week ago. We went a while without talking and she was sick. Then she got a little upset because I didn't go see her while she was sick. Then this leads to her telling me that we don't talk enough and sometimes she feels like she has to keep the conversation going and it gets exhausting. I'm not really good and opening up to other people and really telling them a lot but I am slowly getting better. I asked her to please not give up on us or me. When I told her this in person she didn't really say much and she just kind of stared at the ground. I'm not really sure why she is all of a sudden being like this. I know she has trust issues and she told me when we got back together that if she starts becoming distant that I need to just give her some time. I don't know what to do. Can anyone help me and tell me what you think?
NJtoDC Posted November 11, 2013 Posted November 11, 2013 Sounds like she is expressive a need for more initiation and communication from you. If you want to make her happy perhaps you can make a point in call consistently, ask questions and share things with her. Why didn't you speak to her while she was sick, because she didn't initiate? I wonder if she came to see the one sided nature of communication in the relationship, and may have felt bad about you not showing care while she was down. She may very well have seem distant because she is distancing herself. She may be contemplating a break up. She told you what needs to change to make her happy. If you are able and willing, make some changes. Good luck.
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