Author Willis Posted November 12, 2013 Author Posted November 12, 2013 Thanks for your advice so far! Does anyone think she was trying to impress me, though? It's like she deliberately wanted to let me know how she's progressed as a person. Doesn't the 4 months in Europe thing seem kinda suspicious? Why lie when you were away for 2 months? 1
StyleOnEm Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 Thanks for your advice so far! Does anyone think she was trying to impress me, though? It's like she deliberately wanted to let me know how she's progressed as a person. Doesn't the 4 months in Europe thing seem kinda suspicious? Why lie when you were away for 2 months? Her name doesn't happen to start with a 't', does it?
strive Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 It could be. It felt good speaking to her again but I guess she could be searching for someone to ease her pain? And I don't want to be that dude. But what if she's doing it because she truly misses me? Should I just suspect #1 and ignore her from now on? It can be both. She wants someone to help her and she suddenly misses you. If the first one is a deal breaker I suggest ignore. But if the second one got your interest, maybe find out the reason for the contact.
Chi townD Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 Thanks for your advice so far! Does anyone think she was trying to impress me, though? It's like she deliberately wanted to let me know how she's progressed as a person. Doesn't the 4 months in Europe thing seem kinda suspicious? Why lie when you were away for 2 months? I don't think she was going out of her way to impress you, 4 years is a long time. She was probably just telling you what she's been up to. I mean, anything else would have been awkward and just a reminder of what you two lost with each other. So, what else is there to talk about? What were you hoping for?
Author Willis Posted November 12, 2013 Author Posted November 12, 2013 I don't think she was going out of her way to impress you, 4 years is a long time. She was probably just telling you what she's been up to. I mean, anything else would have been awkward and just a reminder of what you two lost with each other. So, what else is there to talk about? What were you hoping for? I don't know. I was just happy to hear from her and it was a reminder how much we had in common and how great we were together! I don't know the next step. I guess I'll just see if she ever texts me again, I guess?
Author Willis Posted November 12, 2013 Author Posted November 12, 2013 Her name doesn't happen to start with a 't', does it? LOL - Why? You know her? Are you the recently dumped BF?
singme2sleep Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 I don't know. I was just happy to hear from her and it was a reminder how much we had in common and how great we were together! I don't know the next step. I guess I'll just see if she ever texts me again, I guess? LOL - Why? You know her? Are you the recently dumped BF? I thought her recent ex dumped her?!
Author Willis Posted November 13, 2013 Author Posted November 13, 2013 I thought her recent ex dumped her?! I'm pretty sure she dumped HIM... why, does it change anything?
Chi townD Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 I think you have a solid gameplan. Treat that phonecall as nothing more than a blast from the past. Continue to live your life and treat it as an isolated incident.
Author Willis Posted November 14, 2013 Author Posted November 14, 2013 Thanks for all your replies! An update on the situation: My ex texted me to recommend a trip to Europe, saying I would love it. Pretty random.
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