hasekninh Posted November 11, 2013 Posted November 11, 2013 Guys:Beside taking her out and hang out with her, how do you impress girl that you like? do you surprise her? What do you do and what you prefer NOT to do? Ladies: What do you like the guy to do when they like you? do you like surprise? guys try their hardest? etc. What do you think guys should do and NOT do. The reason I ask is because I keep hearing go for the extra miles or that extra distance, but sometime you don't want to be scare her away. So what are the boundary line that show your not desperate for her.
d0nnivain Posted November 11, 2013 Posted November 11, 2013 You listen when she talks. You do little things once in a while . . . a flirty text, a hidden love note (1-2 sentences) occasional flowers or chocolate. For example, a few months after we started dating, I had to be out of town for about a week. When my then BF, now DH, picked me up, be brought me a bag of Hershey's kisses for all the kisses we missed while I was away. Except for the listening, doing this stuff daily is overkill & comes off as clingy. Every once in a while is a nice surprise.
jba10582 Posted November 11, 2013 Posted November 11, 2013 (edited) Guys:Beside taking her out and hang out with her, how do you impress girl that you like? do you surprise her? What do you do and what you prefer NOT to do? The reason I ask is because I keep hearing go for the extra miles or that extra distance, but sometime you don't want to be scare her away. So what are the boundary line that show your not desperate for her. don't try and impress her. eye contact. confidence. smile. show passion for what you do and show interest in her passions. bring her into your reality. lead the date and know where you are going. don't make a huge deal out of it. let go of any expecatations. try and live in the moment. be honest. oh and I have to add..have a minor flaw...girl love to "fix" guys? Edited November 11, 2013 by jba10582
Author hasekninh Posted November 11, 2013 Author Posted November 11, 2013 You listen when she talks. You do little things once in a while . . . a flirty text, a hidden love note (1-2 sentences) occasional flowers or chocolate. For example, a few months after we started dating, I had to be out of town for about a week. When my then BF, now DH, picked me up, be brought me a bag of Hershey's kisses for all the kisses we missed while I was away. Except for the listening, doing this stuff daily is overkill & comes off as clingy. Every once in a while is a nice surprise. Thank, yea doing daily stuff daily is overkill and it does comes off as clingy. she like to be surprise, and I like to surprise people to, but i don't want to do it so often or daily.
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