OCCDAVE Posted November 11, 2013 Posted November 11, 2013 Well Saturday I got a girls number after we struck up a convo which went pretty well.I said well how about we grab a bite next week.She said tbh with you I work Monday-Friday and Saturday my friends b day .She explained her work was 9 to 5 then school at 9 to 10 pm so Saturday is really her only day.My question is I work pretty much all week myself but seems I still have more free time then her.So how do I even go about contacting this girl during the week .Im afraid depending how I do I could come off as clingy or do I wait for her to contact me
Joaquin Posted November 11, 2013 Posted November 11, 2013 She could be trying to fob u off with the I'm very busy line but if u like her I'd call her between 5-9pm and ask her if she wants to go out next Saturday night ie the Saturday after her friends bday. If she says no for whatever reason then just be cool and tell her no worries and to get in touch when she is next free. Ball is then her court. You tried. It's not rocket science, if she wants to see u she will make the time. Then get back out there. Don't wait around or contact her again unless she shows interest. 2
Author OCCDAVE Posted November 11, 2013 Author Posted November 11, 2013 She could be trying to fob u off with the I'm very busy line but if u like her I'd call her between 5-9pm and ask her if she wants to go out next Saturday night ie the Saturday after her friends bday. If she says no for whatever reason then just be cool and tell her no worries and to get in touch when she is next free. Ball is then her court. You tried. It's not rocket science, if she wants to see u she will make the time. Then get back out there. Don't wait around or contact her again unless she shows interest.Well here's a bit more to the story .Reason I suggested should I wait for her to contact me we texted for a bit on Sunday and the convo ended with her saying ill contact you later .Well that never happen then again she was busy doing a project for school .(reminds me when I was a kid in school doing school projects) .Sundays are my family days so I'm not always free.Plus I forgot to mention shes gonna be going to my work for the b day party .(I work in a club/sports bar) So depending how week goes ill be running into her .
Author OCCDAVE Posted November 13, 2013 Author Posted November 13, 2013 I called her today about 8 but no luck .It rang about 3 times then her voicemail came on .Thats pretty much a sign of someone who saw the call and hit ignore .Well balls in her court I can't call/text again or ill look clingy :-/
superb Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 I called her today about 8 but no luck .It rang about 3 times then her voicemail came on .Thats pretty much a sign of someone who saw the call and hit ignore .Well balls in her court I can't call/text again or ill look clingy :-/ I agree. There are more women out there...don't sweat it too much 1
Author OCCDAVE Posted November 13, 2013 Author Posted November 13, 2013 I know there plenty of girls so ill just keep on marching forward .Maybe I'm odd but I'd rather a girl just turn me then give me the number and go Mia
forgetmenot75 Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 OCCDAVE: she's not interested. She likes you but not enough to date you. Keep this in mind: BUSY=NOT INTERESTED -------------------------=====ALWAYS=======----------------------------
Author OCCDAVE Posted November 13, 2013 Author Posted November 13, 2013 I'm def starting to learn that busy=not interested .Guess I just will never understand why you give the digets when you know your not interested
Author OCCDAVE Posted November 13, 2013 Author Posted November 13, 2013 Forgot to ask say I don't hear from all week which way things are that's almost certain .When I see her at my work Friday do I avoid her or make small talk and don't mention the week
mexcity Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 Sometimes it's easier for girls to give their phone number than to say no because it can be awkward. They can always ignore your phone calls, texts or block you if necessary. So not a big deal to give the digits to anybody who asks. 1
mexcity Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 (edited) I would avoid her, she's not interested. I do give some women credit for a least giving men a chance on the first interaction. Most of the time they are nice and all smiles but you are being tested. Even though you get a phone number, you might not realize that it's possible you already failed the test. Edited November 13, 2013 by mexcity 1
kassy Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 If you see her on Friday just make small talk and ask how her week went. If the conversation goes well you can ask her about next week, but see how it goes. I'd move on if I was you unless she initiates meeting up
Author OCCDAVE Posted November 13, 2013 Author Posted November 13, 2013 Maybe I did I mean we text Sunday all seemed good and she said she would contact me later that day which never happen .I was gonna wait till Thursday to call her but to late for that .Owell when I see her ill avoid her
Author OCCDAVE Posted November 14, 2013 Author Posted November 14, 2013 Well she just text me out the blue Her-Hey there what's up ? Me-not much ,how are you Her-Pretty good just busy as always Me-likewise ,so I'll be seeing you this weekend , Her.Thats the plan unless something changes Me-nice at least ill have someone to chat with except for the drunks Her-I'm sure it's not that bad Me-I'm debating on keeping my facial hair Her-I don't know what you look without it Me-ouch you forgot already Her-I wasn't paying attention to that Me-oh I know what you were looking at Her-hehe easy there tiger Anyway guess will see how rest of the week goes
Kate9292 Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 Well she just text me out the blue Her-Hey there what's up ? Me-not much ,how are you Her-Pretty good just busy as always Me-likewise ,so I'll be seeing you this weekend , Her.Thats the plan unless something changes Me-nice at least ill have someone to chat with except for the drunks Her-I'm sure it's not that bad Me-I'm debating on keeping my facial hair Her-I don't know what you look without it Me-ouch you forgot already Her-I wasn't paying attention to that Me-oh I know what you were looking at Her-hehe easy there tiger Anyway guess will see how rest of the week goes She sounds interested, just busy. nice at least ill have someone to chat with except for the drunks Never ever say that again. If a guy said it to me, I'd think he's some kind of anti social hermit and that would be a turn off.
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