hurricane495 Posted December 18, 2004 Posted December 18, 2004 Hello all Im going out for a few drinks with a friend that ive known and worked with for about 3 years we always laugh and have fun but I have been attracted to her for about a year although i dont know how she feels about me should I just play it safe and see where it goes or do I tell her how I feel?
Barby Posted December 18, 2004 Posted December 18, 2004 I say play it off, feel things out and see if it feels like there is chemistry or not. If you feel everything is going smoothly and you two are "hitting it off" you might mention that you've been wanting to "ask her out" for a little while now...I dunno just feel it out and maybe if it feels right you can attempt to hold her hand or something...??!
babybear Posted December 18, 2004 Posted December 18, 2004 I've been in a similar situation with a guy friend I knew for yrs. Eventually he mentioned he had feelings for me. But I think he was great about it. He would ask me to hang out...get a casual drink...grab something to eat. Just got a feel for my vibe too. So, I say you test the waters a bit. Hope this helps! B
alphamale Posted December 18, 2004 Posted December 18, 2004 Originally posted by babybear I've been in a similar situation with a guy friend I knew for yrs. Eventually he mentioned he had feelings for me. But I think he was great about it. He would ask me to hang out...get a casual drink...grab something to eat. Just got a feel for my vibe too. So, I say you test the waters a bit. Hope this helps! B yeah, but he didn't get any action from you
LiveLoveLaugh Posted December 19, 2004 Posted December 19, 2004 Originally posted by alphamale yeah, but he didn't get any action from you But, if he jumps right in and tells her how much he likes her, she will flop over on her back because we women are so desperate to be loved? You were joking, right?
babybear Posted December 21, 2004 Posted December 21, 2004 Originally posted by alphamale yeah, but he didn't get any action from you You are SO joking, right? That's obnoxious. By the way, we did end up dating for awhile. Why, you ask? B/c he wa classy about it. Babybear
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