HorseLuck Posted November 11, 2013 Posted November 11, 2013 (edited) I'm not proud of how I went about ending a relationship. I didn't contact this person properly, although in my mind it wouldn't have made much of a difference at the time. That aside, there were a couple of issues. I feel it stemmed from me, but I can't tell anymore. I'm hard on myself about almost everything. I know I made the smart decision but am often in denial because I miss this person. Emotion killing the logic. I didn't want to but we were at wit's end with arguments and stress. How do you learn the art of forgiving one's self? Been dragging the pain along. Edited November 11, 2013 by HorseLuck
BigGirlPantiesOn Posted November 11, 2013 Posted November 11, 2013 Write a letter to yourself. I use the inner child method. I, the adult, write a letter to my inner child with an apology, and promise to not repeat the act again. the definition of forgiveness is to "let go of resentment". You must stop resenting yourself for whatever you did. Resentment is poison...release it so you can be free.
Author HorseLuck Posted November 12, 2013 Author Posted November 12, 2013 Any other suggestions, or no sympathy for a dumper?
2fargone Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 Embrace the pain, the hurt. Come to terms with the fact that this happens to all kinds of people every day.
Author HorseLuck Posted November 12, 2013 Author Posted November 12, 2013 Embrace the pain, the hurt. Come to terms with the fact that this happens to all kinds of people every day. That's true. Thank you, I'll try to remember that.
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