bubblygrl5 Posted December 18, 2004 Posted December 18, 2004 Okay, there's this post that's been here for DAYS about how we women supposedly want guys who act like jacka**** and treat us like shi*. So, we might as well go on for days about why men love bitch**. I'll go first: Men love them because they can't control them, and it drives them insane. Apparently they'd rather chase endlessly than just be loved. They all want to be the one to tame the wild ones - and want to be kept on their toes. They're afraid to committ...and as long as they date women that aren't "marriage material", it's all good. No need to ever think about the long term. As a woman who doesnt consider herself a bit**, what part of this is appealing? Alright, well, I took a stab at it. So what do you all think? Bubblygrl
alphamale Posted December 18, 2004 Posted December 18, 2004 Originally posted by bubblygrl5 Okay, there's this post that's been here for DAYS about how we women supposedly want guys who act like jacka**** and treat us like shi*. So, we might as well go on for days about why men love bitch**. Dear Bubblygrl5: Men do love bytches. I totally agree. And it is for mainly the same reason that women love bad boys. See my topic I started yesterday on bad boys. Just reverse everything and apply it to men who love bytches.
Merin Posted December 18, 2004 Posted December 18, 2004 Well.. I honestly do believe it is true that some guys really dig BeeeoottccchhhaaaSsss! Why that is.. probably for the same reason(s) some girls always seem to date assclowns People always seem to want what they deem to be unattainable.. so maybe it's the challenge? You know that whole.. "I know you really loathe me.. but damn girl.. in time.. I'm gonna make you love my a**" kinda deal?! I'm just not down for the Assclowns.. I don't have time for the B.S and honestly IF I need to commiserate with my friends IF a guy is interested in me or not.. then IMO he isn't interested enough... NEEXXXTTTTT! I wouldn't consider myself a beeotch.. BUT I'm also not down for being walked on (again.. damn ****er!) So you live and you learn you know? IF I feel someone isn't treating me right.. I'm not going to even send the middle finger that means so much when you *care* I'm out of there.. then the next time the jackass in question decides to call and I don't answer EVER.. well then he can look at his Bro's and say "Damn whadda Beeotch!"
alphamale Posted December 18, 2004 Posted December 18, 2004 Originally posted by Merin BUT I'm also not down for being walked on (again.. damn ****er!) So you live and you learn you know? IF I feel someone isn't treating me right.. I'm not going to even send the middle finger that means so much when you *care* I'm out of there.. then the next time the jackass in question decides to call and I don't answer EVER.. well then he can look at his Bro's and say "Damn whadda Beeotch!" Dear Merin: Yes, but when that dude you really really really really really like a lot and who pushes all your buttons comes along and then starts treating you like shyt the above will fly out the door.
Merin Posted December 18, 2004 Posted December 18, 2004 Originally posted by alphamale Dear Merin: Yes, but when that dude you really really really really really like a lot and who pushes all your buttons comes along and then starts treating you like shyt the above will fly out the door. Dear Alpha, Your outta your a**. Love Merin
moimeme Posted December 18, 2004 Posted December 18, 2004 People always seem to want what they deem to be unattainable.. so maybe it's the challenge? You know that whole.. "I know you really loathe me.. but damn girl.. in time.. I'm gonna make you love my a**" kinda deal?! Sure. It's like winning the baseball game, the tennis match, or the race. It's about 'no mere female is going to defy me. I'll make her like me because I must win always'. There's a married dude at work who continues to pursue me. I've made it clear that I'm not interested. He persists. This is just annoying. To me, it's about a battle of wills and men who can't take being defeated.
Merin Posted December 18, 2004 Posted December 18, 2004 Originally posted by moimeme Sure. It's like winning the baseball game, the tennis match, or the race. It's about 'no mere female is going to defy me. I'll make her like me because I must win always'. There's a married dude at work who continues to pursue me. I've made it clear that I'm not interested. He persists. This is just annoying. To me, it's about a battle of wills and men who can't take being defeated. Amen.
Anais Posted December 18, 2004 Posted December 18, 2004 I have an uncle who would tell me when I was a child: “Know “bad” guys always get “good” girls and “good” guys get “bad” girls. And you know why? Because “good” girls and boys are waiting to be picked up and “bad” guys/girls are picking up themselves.” There is some true in it.
johan Posted December 18, 2004 Posted December 18, 2004 There is no bitch out there better for me than the one I already have. And I think she thinks I'm the best jerk for her.
Author bubblygrl5 Posted December 18, 2004 Author Posted December 18, 2004 If guys love beeyatches SO much, then how come every time we meet a guy who starts out fairly decent, he ends up backing out cause he's got some committment problem, cause some bit** screwed him over once. So why keep going back for more, guys? Bubbly
Adunaphel Posted December 18, 2004 Posted December 18, 2004 I'm grateful to "b*tches". I don't like men who fall for b*tches, and b*tches take them away from the market. They make it easier for me to spot the guys I might be interested in. It's pretty much the reason why I love bad guys and ladies who dig them: they are leaving the nice guys available!!!
fundamental Posted December 18, 2004 Posted December 18, 2004 Sorry, but I prefer a nice girl....who is NOT controllable.
alphamale Posted December 18, 2004 Posted December 18, 2004 Originally posted by bubblygrl5 ...how come every time we meet a guy who starts out fairly decent, he ends up backing out cause he's got some committment problem, cause some bit** screwed him over once. So why keep going back for more, guys? Bubbly because we need sex
LiveLoveLaugh Posted December 19, 2004 Posted December 19, 2004 Exactly why we turn into b*itches Alpha.
Grinning Maniac Posted December 20, 2004 Posted December 20, 2004 I've never dated a bitch, and I don't intend on starting. I don't see the need for any extra aggravation in my life. You can have them.
alphamale Posted December 20, 2004 Posted December 20, 2004 Originally posted by LiveLoveLaugh Exactly why we turn into b*itches Alpha. Dear L.L.L. I only date bytches. They tend to be better looking.
LiveLoveLaugh Posted December 20, 2004 Posted December 20, 2004 Originally posted by alphamale Dear L.L.L. I only date bytches. They tend to be better looking. Well then, that explains alot.
Author bubblygrl5 Posted December 21, 2004 Author Posted December 21, 2004 I think the guys who want to date a b*tchy girl are the kinda guys who know they can't keep a decent girl...either cause they're insecure, or just scared. And rather than get screwed, they wanna blame it on the girl. I'm sorry, but any guy who wants a decent relationship is gonna go for the girl with her head on straight. I happen to think that dating a b*tch is sort of a defense mechanism. Kinda like the guy who wants to be a player. You know that he got burned once, when he was like 19, and now he's too scared to get back in the game. Same thing. Bubbly
Author bubblygrl5 Posted December 21, 2004 Author Posted December 21, 2004 Yes, but when that dude you really really really really really like a lot and who pushes all your buttons comes along and then starts treating you like shyt the above will fly out the door. I don't think that's true either. You don't agree to drop your standards and take shi*...you just think there's something good in the guy...something that attracted u in the first place, and you don't want to give up on him right away, and believe he truly is the jacka** you're starting to believe he is. You give them the benefit of the doubt. Not that you don't deserve better...cause in the end, you will end up dumping his a**. Bubbly
Author bubblygrl5 Posted December 21, 2004 Author Posted December 21, 2004 Originally posted by johan There is no bitch out there better for me than the one I already have. And I think she thinks I'm the best jerk for her. Umm...I guess that's sorta sweet... Bubbly
Learnedmylesson Posted December 22, 2004 Posted December 22, 2004 Well, I was a "good girl" who was dumped by a "bad boy." He left me for a "bad girl", and married her. Go figure.
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