He Think's She's Prego

[napy666]

Here's the situation my friend is telling me and this is a guy friend and a real friend story not my own.

 

He is 20 and he is dating a 19 year old girl and her parents do not know that they are dating. Back on October 12, 2013 he thinks is when it happen, they were messing around and he cummed on her stomach but most of it poured down near her vagina not totally near but in the small space near the thigh. He isn't sure how far most of it went he's afraid some of it went inside her vagina. She told him she skipped her period and has gotten fatter and is having mood swings crying over little problems and having a lot of other problems too more than usual.

 

He says if she is pregnant he is going to have her kill the kid. I told him some girls think they are pregnant but really are not. He keeps telling her to get herself checked out but she does not want too and her parents do not know she is pregnant either.

 

He is getting disturbed by all of this and does not know what to do.

Edited November 11, 2013 by napy666

[Janesays]

She's not pregnant. He can relax.

[2sunny]

Sounds like drama that could be settled with a pregnancy test for about $10 - go buy one.

[napy666]

But she won't take the test.

[2sunny]

But she won't take the test.

 

She's probably going to start her period. You don't get fat that early in pregnancy.

 

He needs to stop seeing her - she's not even responsible enough to pee on a stick to give him peace of mind.

[napy666]

I guess so.

[Janesays]

Doesn't matter if she takes the test or not. She is NOT pregnant. Do you know how impossible it would be for her to get pregnant how you described?

 

First, we would have to assume that he has super human sperm with brains that could think rationally. Then, they would have to have hands of some sort. Then and only then could these sperm crawl down her stomach, across her thigh, physically part her vaginal lips so they could enter her vagina, then swim UP the vaginal canal, through her uterus where they would finally, after an epic and impossible journey, reach her fallopian tubes.

 

She is NOT pregnant. Or, if she is, this is NOT his child. It's more likely baby Jesus.

 

Your friend doest need a girlfriend. He needs to take a class so he can learn how basic reproduction works.

 

The "symptoms" she's having aren't even symptoms of early pregnancy. They sound more like symptoms of PMS. If she's crying a lot, it is because she's being a brat. If she's getting fat, it is because she is eating too much.

 

She's not pregnant. Everyone relax. And before you run off and have sex, first make sure you understand how a penis and a vagina work.

[madjac74]

Be honest! You banged her too that is why you are so worried.

[BHsigh]

Doesn't matter if she takes the test or not. She is NOT pregnant. Do you know how impossible it would be for her to get pregnant how you described?

 

First, we would have to assume that he has super human sperm with brains that could think rationally. Then, they would have to have hands of some sort. Then and only then could these sperm crawl down her stomach, across her thigh, physically part her vaginal lips so they could enter her vagina, then swim UP the vaginal canal, through her uterus where they would finally, after an epic and impossible journey, reach her fallopian tubes.

 

She is NOT pregnant. Or, if she is, this is NOT his child. It's more likely baby Jesus.

 

Your friend doest need a girlfriend. He needs to take a class so he can learn how basic reproduction works.

 

The "symptoms" she's having aren't even symptoms of early pregnancy. They sound more like symptoms of PMS. If she's crying a lot, it is because she's being a brat. If she's getting fat, it is because she is eating too much.

 

She's not pregnant. Everyone relax. And before you run off and have sex, first make sure you understand how a penis and a vagina work.

 

Well, I hate to break it to you, but it is definitely possible.

 

It sounds like he was pulling out rather than using a condom. And while the chances for pregnancy when pulling out is low, it is still possible.

 

According to Planned Parenthood, 4 in 100 women a year get pregnant when using the pull out method correctly and 27 out of 100 women get pregnant each year when using the pull out method incorrectly.

 

And this of course, is caused by the pre-ejaculate.

 

Also, sperm can move, numerous cells in your body are capable of individual motion, and sperm may be among the most mobile due to their "tail". So yes, if the ejaculation gets onto a womans vulva it can indeed cause pregnancy. Again, the chance of this is probably very low, but far from impossible.

 

(And when I say onto, I do mean the outside)

Edited November 14, 2013 by BHsigh

[BHsigh]

Oh, and before you say to yourself "4 out of 100 is pretty low", remember that you can also say that it's the same percentage as 1 out of 25.

[Janesays]

Oh, and before you say to yourself "4 out of 100 is pretty low", remember that you can also say that it's the same percentage as 1 out of 25.

 

I wasn't going to say that. I was going to say that you misread the post. They were NOT having sex with the 'pull out method.' They were fooling around, probably a handjob or a blowjob as that is generally what 'messing around' means, and he ended up cumming on her stomach. If they were actually having sex, yeah, there is a chance she could be pregnant via precum. But they weren't. He just came on her stomach and it dripped down NEAR her vagina. Not even ON it. NEAR it.

 

Again, at NO POINT did he claim they had actual sex via the pull out method. That's all in your head, bubba.

 

Reading comprehension skills rock, yo.

Edited November 14, 2013 by Janesays

[BHsigh]

I wasn't going to say that. I was going to say that you misread the post. They were NOT having sex with the 'pull out method.' They were fooling around, probably a handjob or a blowjob as that is generally what 'messing around' means, and he ended up cumming on her stomach. If they were actually having sex, yeah, there is a chance she could be pregnant via precum. But they weren't. He just came on her stomach and it dripped down NEAR her vagina. Not even ON it. NEAR it.

 

Again, at NO POINT did he claim they had actual sex via the pull out method. That's all in your head, bubba.

 

Reading comprehension skills rock, yo.

 

Nice job with the personal attacks there, I happen to have great reading comprehension skills btw.

 

If you're correct that there was no sex, then I apologize to him, but the wording makes it sound like there was, terms such as "messing around" can refer to sex, as that's what my wife always says.

 

My second post wasn't directed at you per say, it was just in support of my first post, that I meant to include but didn't want to edit as the statement stands on its own regarding pregnancy chances. I apologize to you for not making that clear in the post, that was my mistake

 

And I did not mean to "call you out" in any way in either of my posts, I was just informing, so I apologize for that as well, as I can see how it would come across that way.

 

He also stated specifically "He isn't sure how far most of it went he's afraid some of it went inside her vagina", that is directly from his post.

 

Reading comprehension skills rock, yo. Right back at ya.

 

You may want to work on your social skills, "sweety"

 

(see how that feels)

[Janesays]

For someone who claims to have passable reading comprehension skills, you are interpreting a lot from the OP that just isn't there. I'd suggest you'd read it again, but it appears that repetition isnt helping you any. The only other thing I can suggest is a reading tutor.

[Lauriebell82]

Why would she not want to take a pregnancy test? Her parents are going to find out (if she is in fact pregnant) when she sports a tummy and pops out a kid in 9 months. She sounds very immature and your friend does too, to be honest. Neither of them are responsible or mature enough to be having sex.

[pteromom]

Whether she could or couldn't be pregnant aside, she wouldn't be showing this early, so her weight gain is definitely not due to pregnancy.

 

If he stays with her, they need to have some serious discussion should a similar situation come up again. They need to talk about protection, their stances on abortion, and when a pee test will happen if there's another scare.

[BHsigh]

For someone who claims to have passable reading comprehension skills, you are interpreting a lot from the OP that just isn't there. I'd suggest you'd read it again, but it appears that repetition isnt helping you any. The only other thing I can suggest is a reading tutor.

 

And I could easily say the same thing about you, I guess I can make it shorter so that you can understand

 

"Messing around" can mean having sex.

 

and

 

"He isn't sure how far most of it went he's afraid some of it went inside her vagina" can mean that some ejaculation may have touched her vulva, which can cause pregnancy.

 

The important thing would be for her to take a pregnancy test and to get a DNA test done if she is pregnant, I would definitely suggest both.

 

How about we wait for OP to reply before you derail this thread any further with more personal attacks. Attempting to attack my reading comprehension skills is childish and laughable, how old are you? 12?

 

I have already apologized to you for making it appear that I was singling you out, I did not mean to do that, now drop whatever your problem is.

Edited November 16, 2013 by BHsigh

[man_in_the_box]

And this of course, is caused by the pre-ejaculate.

 

As retarded as the pull-out method is - it has never been apparent from research that pre-ejaculate contains semen. It sometimes happens that semen from a previous ejaculation (ofcourse that than has been pretty recent!) is present in it - but generally not.

 

Also, sperm can move, numerous cells in your body are capable of individual motion, and sperm may be among the most mobile due to their "tail". So yes, if the ejaculation gets onto a womans vulva it can indeed cause pregnancy. Again, the chance of this is probably very low, but far from impossible.

 

Yes, in the proper environment. I doubt sperm can swim from the semen into the vagina over skin or through air. Additionally sperm just dies if its not in the right acidic environments (such as outside the body).

Edited November 16, 2013 by man_in_the_box

[Robert]

As the thread starter isn't present right now this thread will be closed, if the thread starter would like it re-opened then alert on my post and we will do so, thanks