Jagger341 Posted November 11, 2013 Posted November 11, 2013 She's been talking to me less and less lately. She used to message me every single day, but ever since October, she's been talking less and less. I had assumed that she's been busy with college, but even in September, she's been talking to me nearly every single day. She even seems like she really wants to make this work, but lately, she won't even talk to me and it's been over a week. I just don't know what to do and I can't even sleep right now.
Sparta Posted November 11, 2013 Posted November 11, 2013 She probably met someone else. Women are pretty f*** up if you haven't already discovered that. The best thing you can do is NC (No Contact) you're probably texting or calling her all the time knock that **** off. That's the most unattractive thing you can do.
Author Jagger341 Posted November 11, 2013 Author Posted November 11, 2013 But that's just it, I don't even talk to her every day. The last time we talked was November 2nd, and since then, I've trying to talk to her the next day, then three days later, then on the weekend. I assumed she was just busy or something, but she won't even talk to me now.
nomadic_butterfly Posted November 11, 2013 Posted November 11, 2013 She probably met someone else. Women are pretty f*** up if you haven't already discovered that. The best thing you can do is NC (No Contact) you're probably texting or calling her all the time knock that **** off. That's the most unattractive thing you can do. WOW. The eternal optimist. Just because you have poor judgement of character doesn't mean your should manifest and project your inadequacies on an innocent party. PEOPLE IN GENERAL can be pretty messed up. MALE AND FEMALE. OP ignore this sour grape.
nomadic_butterfly Posted November 11, 2013 Posted November 11, 2013 But that's just it, I don't even talk to her every day. The last time we talked was November 2nd, and since then, I've trying to talk to her the next day, then three days later, then on the weekend. I assumed she was just busy or something, but she won't even talk to me now. Some people unfortunately lack courage and/or the decency to tell it like it is. Since she normally would communicate regularly despite a heavy workload, suffice to say something is up. Maybe she met someone else, maybe she has even more work than ever before, maybe she has hesitations and don't know how to communicate them directly to you. I think you should write her a final email and tell her, you don't know what's going on, but you thought you had something special so if she doesn't respond by X date and X time you are going to assume it is over though you'd much prefer she at least respect you enough to tell you directly and so that her conscience can be clear and everyone gets closure.
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