TrailHawk235 Posted November 11, 2013 Posted November 11, 2013 Had a long term relationship go into no contact Im unsure of its meaning I have read No Contact is the best way to truly end a relationship. I have read no contact is a way to step back find ones self and reconnect and rekindle a relationship no contact seems to go both ways How do I know which route of No Contact is right for me? If I hold strong and go NC, eventually ill move on and thats it. If I break NC it can go one of two ways Most likely it would go negative, One wouldent get the response they wanted. and on top of that it gives the ex an ego boost, one could get information about your ex you didnt want, and other negative aspects. Or it could start a path of reconcilation. How does one ever know what to do. How Do I know if I should break NC after taking time for reflection, if i still feel it could work The way my relationship ended i can see it being just plain over I can also see the relationship returning and growing stronger it didnt end in a way leaving little hope I want to break NC so bad I was in a relationship for 4 years, she dumped me, its been 4 months no contact I am unsure if I should ever break no contact and talk to her I am sure that I think about her alot
Author TrailHawk235 Posted November 11, 2013 Author Posted November 11, 2013 Additional Re-enforcment Does NC just mean its over and time to get over it and move on I was dumped. As the dumpee I read I should never be the one to initiate breaking NC
KatZee Posted November 11, 2013 Posted November 11, 2013 NC. No Contact. Means zero communication. Forever. Move on. It's done. NC isn't manipulation to get someone back, it's used to heal. Eventually NC turns into, "I've moved on and that person is just not in my life anymore." And the world continues to go on without them and you don't care to reach out to them anymore. 1
ks0985 Posted November 11, 2013 Posted November 11, 2013 NC is what it is...no contact what so ever with you're ex. Usually initiated by the dumpee. Works well in getting over that person as long as you accept the fact the relationship is over and move on. Clinging to a hope NC will fix everything and the two of you will get back together is not wise tho.
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