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Occupational Hazard - an Affair??


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What do y'all think about the "excuse" that all cops cheat? Assuming this is true, why do you think it is??

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LOL My father was a cop he was an exception to the rule, he didn't cheat. But he didn't like the glamour of the high profile position as well!

 

Being a nurse, yeah I see this over and over. It isn't so much they are looking to cheat, it is the uniform thing with women/men. Some just get so stupid over it! It is the unwarranted flattery and boosts in egos; Definatley an ego thing!

 

As I have said there is never a good reason to cheat, excuses maybe but never a reason!

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What do y'all think about the "excuse" that all cops cheat?

 

 

I don't think that all cops cheat. However, they do have a high divorce rate. I am married to a cop and I am the one that had the affair. I think cops wives probably cheat just as often as cops. We went to counseling through my H work a few times and they told us the divorce rate was 75%. Every affair has an excuse. Mine was because of my H job and becoming an instant "single" mom to two kids. It's hard to have someone put their job before their family and when they are home they always have work on their mind. We can't go anywhere or do anything without my H not second guessing everything and paying attention to things most people would not give a second glance. It's also hard having them work every holiday, swing shifts and kids birthdays.

 

I am sure my H is just as stressed if not more. They basically deal with sh*t heads all day long. My H calls it babysitting adults. They see a lot of things most people could not handle seeing.

 

Their profession is among a list of several that are very stressful. I've heard a lot of stories about firefighters and I work with a lot of doctors that have had affairs.

 

Basically people cheat and have several excuses for cheating no matter what their profession is. Sometimes finding excuses and not trying are easier then putting in the effort in keeping a healthy happy marriage.

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My sfil was a cop b4 he retired and he never had any affairs but his ex-wife did.

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