haggard969 Posted November 10, 2013 Posted November 10, 2013 yeah yeah i know i am ignoring, but what happens when IGNORING DOESNT WORK! this is getting out of control, im getting like 50 texts a day, she keeps complaining about her new bf, i havent replied to anything at all, its all about her comparing him to me n how she made a huge mistake blah blah. i cant stand it, i blocked her number so she cant call, but i still recieve the texts, i even deleted her off of my email, she made a new email n started emailing me. i recieved a letter in the mail with all of our old pictures and some sappy love letter, she even left a note in my windshield whipper blade! i cant stand this, im thinking of getting a restraining order on her. why do the ones who seem perfect always seem to be the crazy ones, should i start dating crazy chicks because they might be the perfect ones? make things worse, she also has been texting my friends, looking for me but they have been telling her to F off. but at the same time, ive talked to her friends ive seen around town, n they say she talks tones of crap about me! god this is just a mess i really just want her gone, she makes me sick, but on the other hand i guess karma has hit her, shes been living with her new bf who is a laborer, hes broke every time they get paid. n his car is a beater that keeps breaking down. all he ever wants to do she said was cuddle n watch movies together, n he just rents a room in a house with 3 other wierd guys, LOL, n she thinks im going to take her back, she threw away a 3rd year sheetmetal worker with a good vehicle n a nice house for some LOSER, plus ive been talking to this new girl, shes 4 years older than me, but she seems much more mature then my ex. anyways, im satisfied that victory is still mine. but god damb, what do i do , like murder is not an option unfortunatly, any other ideas? because this is just getting ridiculous n its starting to become a problem. like a dirty rat who left its cheese for some moldy meat, n it wants its cheese back because the meat was no good, well this cheese is taken now! my advice to the young ones out there, dont date, just rap it n tap it, nail n bail, or F n chuck, get married when you 40 1
Author haggard969 Posted November 10, 2013 Author Posted November 10, 2013 i guess i shoulda said now this cheese is in a rat trap aha
TylerDurdenn Posted November 10, 2013 Posted November 10, 2013 Comparing other's material possesions to your own is a bit sad. 1
2fargone Posted November 11, 2013 Posted November 11, 2013 Apparently you need alot of attention. If I'm wrong, why don't you just give me her email adress. I will direct her here to read what you write. That will get her 'off your back'...
xUnknown Posted November 11, 2013 Posted November 11, 2013 Comparing other's material possesions to your own is a bit sad. Yeah I agree...I'm sure the OP was just looking for an ego boost. OP, block her number. call your phone company and block her for good.
Author haggard969 Posted November 11, 2013 Author Posted November 11, 2013 Comparing other's material possesions to your own is a bit sad. wow you must be a hater, i think i do have the right to compare some loser gang member to my self expecially if my ex is having sex with him in the next room while my step daughter is forced to stay in another room n watch tv with three wierdos,i know who these guys are n i know why this guy isnt with his baby mom any more, because he beat her up. think before you speak, i know a safe home for my kids which is mine, and i wouldn't jeopardize them just because i felt an infatuation like my ex. and as for me needing alot of attention, i simply asked what is a good way for me to get her off my back. so dont hate what you dont understand. but this situation is not only about my ex, i some how also have to find a way to get custody of a child that is not blood but that i raised myself. and its a messed up situation because of how messed up her mom is right now. so what exactly would you do if it was you in this situation, take back your ex knowing everything she did is wrong n be misserable just so you know your kid is safe? or kick your ex out knowing that your kid is in a bad situation. or some how fight for a kid that is not legally yours n that you probably wont win, see its messed up, every situation is a win lose situation
Omei Posted November 11, 2013 Posted November 11, 2013 Unless you can prove a mother is unfit to care for the child, much more than personality its unlikely you will ever gain custody esp not being blood related even if the home is unfit they get an oppertunity to change that first. Unless its drugs or the child is being abused its hard to get children out of homes no matter how they are or whos living in them. Id stay threaten to tell whoever shes with that you'll spill what shes saying/doing then she will prob stop contact. And you want her out of your life? Sounds like you need to leave hers child and all, its too bad but you having any say in what happens to the kid is unlikely.
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