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Friendship Advice Needed


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There 's this girl that I like (as a friend). We talked on Facebook and eventually exchanged phone numbers. We started texting back and forth for around 5 months. Things were looking good, we had some great conversations and her replies were 8-10 lines (on average). She was pretty generous on the !'s and ;-) as well. She found me funny, athletic, kind-hearted and one that's incredibly smart (though I'm not).

 

I manage to meet up with her, in person. Her best friends did not like me, at all. I tried to organise a time to meet-up, and she decided to bring her besties. Since then, things didn't look too good. She would normally reply to my texts quickly. At this point, I'll be lucky to get a 4 line reply from her everyday. It's a case of waiting for 20+ hours to get a reply.

 

Here's the awkward moment, while I was waiting from a reply to a message I sent 2 day ago, I was walking through the streets and saw her unexpectedly, she saw me, ignored me and walked away. 6 minutes later, she replied to my text. She's rarely initiating in the conversation, yet alone friendship.

 

I really want to be friends with her. There is a strong chance that she has found a partner. The potential partner has the best friends approval. Not sure on where the friendship is at the moment. Tbh, I'm just waiting for her to give me a text saying 'sorry, we can't be friends' or 'sorry, there's no point talking to you'.

 

What's your opinion? What advice would you give me?

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