Grumpybutfun Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 Glad to see you proactive! Your Dad is smart. Now, think about other ways to shut yourself off from him (phone calls, messages etc). I promise that it will help you heal faster. OS: This^^^^ Anna is right. Make sure you go NC as soon as possible. This guy could be dangerous. When people are volatile, they do crazy things when they are hurt and mad. As for why someone whom you thought you knew could change...the only thing I have to say is that at your age, people do evolve and sometimes it is based more on the people they hang out with rather than who they are inherently. Good Luck, Grumps 2
Author OpheliaSong Posted November 13, 2013 Author Posted November 13, 2013 Thanks Anna and GBF. I am NC with him. He keeps trying to get ahold of me, but I am done. What you said about friends really resonated with me because I never liked either of his best friends. They were terrible to their girlfriends, almost abusive in front of people, treating them like prostitutes and always saying they were dumb and stupid. I guess that should have been a sign. Thanks for the support. I am actually doing much better than I thought I would. Really busy with school, getting ready for the holidays and spending lots of time with my mom and dad.
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