Have you ever been envious of a friend or family member?

[Revolver]

Success With the opposite sex when it comes to dating an relationships? Why or why not? This is the thread for those stories

[cocorico]

Success With the opposite sex when it comes to dating an relationships? Why or why not? This is the thread for those stories

 

Nope. I seem to have the best deal of all.

[MissBee]

Success With the opposite sex when it comes to dating an relationships? Why or why not? This is the thread for those stories

 

No, not really.

 

Some of my friends tended to be in relationships that I often wondered why they were in them or even if they were happy, it just wasn't the dynamic for me, so I didn't want it for myself.

 

Then those in good relationships or relationships more akin to the style I'd want for myself didn't result in envy. It was inspiring to me.

 

I do well in terms of the opposite sex so I don't tend to be envious, but things ebb and flow. Sometimes I go through periods where I feel like everyone who approaches me is a loser and during those times if my friend(s) are having success with non-losers then I'm jokingly envious of why can't that be me right then. But it's not serious and this isn't in general, it will just be more of a fleeting expression of my current frustration and temporary envy of them seeming to do better at the moment.

[Nikki Sahagin]

No as I am never attracted to there boyfriends Sometimes I wonder how there relationships outlasted mine, but I can't say I feel any real envy, moreso bafflement sometimes.

[down hearted]

nope not really, i do think one of my friends was a bit though towards me, after i got married in the same year after my wedding she said to me, "I'm going to tell my bf to marry me now" and she did in just a few months after my wedding (she had already been with the guy for a long time and never thought about marriage she has a kid and everything and she pretty much after my wedding asked me where i went to go get my wedding stuff at, the place i did my wedding at because she wanted it there too and she even went to the same bridal boutique to get her dress there, she also wanted her ring to be bigger brighter and more extravagant and paid a lot of money for it (then she slowly critiqued my wedding after hers to see which one was better ugh….) so yea :roll eyes:

Edited November 11, 2013 by down hearted

[crederer]

Not since I was a young teen.

 

My buddy dated a girl I had a huge crush on, and I knew her before he did, and we were kind of unofficially dating. Just like hanging out a lot, we kissed a couple times, normal 14 year old stuff. I was pretty envious when he got her to be his girlfriend. That was probably the last and only time.