Looking for/Dating someone else

[Mz_sassy_77]

Do you think if your ex is either dating someone else OR actively trying to meet someone else to date it means they are over you?

[2fargone]

That would depend on the individual. With my ex, I believe everything she sais. That means she is not over me, loves me, yet found someone else to give here the love and affection she needs.

 

 

Today's truth isn't tomorrows. Her motivations are unknown to me. All I need to know is she doesn't want to be with me.

[Mz_sassy_77]

I don't want my EX back. I know it wasn't a good RS for me. I just still don't understand how it is so easy for some people to move on. I know dumpers have more time to get used to the idea etc. But at the same time how can you just forget about someone you loved. How can you just go on with life and tell everyone life is awesome and start hitting on random women and go out all the time with friends...as if nothing ever happened. That I don't understand. And I guess I never will.

[inaya42]

I don't want my EX back. I know it wasn't a good RS for me. I just still don't understand how it is so easy for some people to move on. I know dumpers have more time to get used to the idea etc. But at the same time how can you just forget about someone you loved. How can you just go on with life and tell everyone life is awesome and start hitting on random women and go out all the time with friends...as if nothing ever happened. That I don't understand. And I guess I never will.

 

hmmm - that's not moving on; it's ego repair. and both dumpers and dumpees do it after a break up. dating, hooking up, actively looking does not mean that someone is over a prior relationship - just that they are willing to get back out there.

[j.gman]

Not really. In fact, if she is doing it to make you jealous, it means that she still cares about you and there is a chance of reconciliation.