Drewx2 Posted November 10, 2013 Posted November 10, 2013 We went on a few dates last winter and had a really good time. Then all of the sudden she flaked out and went cold. I kept talking to her for a few months after she dumped me. I pursued one last time and didn't hear anything back. I decided to stop talking to her. Yesterday, after three months of no communication she sent me an email telling me that she wanted to be on good terms and to let her know If I'm ever in town so we can catch up. Does it sound like she only wants to be friends? I'm not really interested in just a friendship. It's the reason I stopped contacting her in the first place. I still like her but I don't want to be played. The last text I sent her (3 months ago) was "You know I want you, when can I see you again?" So if she's really only looking for a friendship, she's playing with fire. I might be interested in FWB, but I could never be just friends with her...I'm way too attracted. How should I handle this? I'm kind of stumped.
Author Drewx2 Posted November 10, 2013 Author Posted November 10, 2013 When you know you are going to be in her town ask... Call her up, ask her out and have fun. P.S. - She isn't looking for a relationship / marrige. She wants to have fun. Wouldn't that make me look easy though? I pursued her for months.
Uwaae Posted November 10, 2013 Posted November 10, 2013 I dont think she wants to be with you, try pursuing other girls
Author Drewx2 Posted November 10, 2013 Author Posted November 10, 2013 Dude, you are thinking BF / GF and relationship and that isn't on her radar. If you are going to be in her town, know of something fun to do, invite her and have fun. That is about the extent of what she wants. She doesn't want a BF, flowers, poems, to talk everyday or a relationship. Could FWB be on her radar? I'd take that
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