mattyp Posted November 10, 2013 Posted November 10, 2013 Ok everyone i have an earliar post. yesterday i went to the bar with a female friend. just a friend. my ex saw me and her at the bar and she soon after left. Me and thevfriend did nothing to show we werevan item. today my ex writes this morning how i made a good choice and shes a good girl and be good around our son.i didnt engaged i just saidcwhen are we meeting for drop off torrow. She again resends the message and i say the same thibg. she kept going on about how shecwas a good girl and to listen to her and dont let my family mess it up. i never once said i was or wasnt with this girl. she said a few other thubgs as to things about our son. but she made it seem she was supportive. shecactualky messaged the girl. who she actualky cant stand and gave her blessing. the gurl saud we werent an item. so i ask is this her way of seeming alil jealous. ir what?
ks0985 Posted November 10, 2013 Posted November 10, 2013 It is her way to try get info out of you without asking the obvious question. If it were me i wouldn't even reply. Unless she makes an effort to try get back together why waist your time 1
Author mattyp Posted November 10, 2013 Author Posted November 10, 2013 I didnt give her any info at. i said it was none of her business what i do. and she kept asking and basically approving it. but i gave her nothing. she messaged the girl she said wevwerent an item. My ex seemed disapointed by that.
ks0985 Posted November 10, 2013 Posted November 10, 2013 I didnt give her any info at. i said it was none of her business what i do. and she kept asking and basically approving it. but i gave her nothing. she messaged the girl she said wevwerent an item. My ex seemed disapointed by that. Man dont confuse her jealousy with wanting to get back together. trust me if she wanted to she would make way more effort then that. Its actually pretty childish on her part. Keep doing what you're doing go out with other women and enjoy yourself.
Author mattyp Posted November 10, 2013 Author Posted November 10, 2013 Does this sound like jealousy and digging for info. or truely happy?
barky2 Posted November 10, 2013 Posted November 10, 2013 Jealousy,digging for info, trying to prove to herself she doesn't care,pretending to be happy for you blah blah Who gives a crap. Continue living your life...don't answer her again. She wanted to see if she could A) still get your head spinning (complete) B) to see if you still cared (complete) C) if you'd respond (complete) D) if you were together ( complete ) Leave it be, stop your head spinning, and continue moving forward. Barky
aybc123 Posted November 10, 2013 Posted November 10, 2013 its just jealousy man, totally natural, doesnt mean she wants you back, just means she still considers you as hers in some way. you should also see from this how obvious it would be if she did want you back, i mean she was hardly subtle here, so you can presume she wouldnt be if it was anything else either.
Catfish Posted November 10, 2013 Posted November 10, 2013 Matt, Focus on yourself and your children. Get a job. Get in shape at the Gym. See more Women. Go have fun. Basically, move on with your life. Be the Rock in your child's life. Hopefully, at some point your ex will wake up and decide to be a mother to your son. Based upon what's she's done to date I would not let her back in your life. She is not being fair to her own child! If she does show up and she will after she sees you move on. By the way she is a classic Narcissist! Everything is about what she wants! Set clear boundaries about her interaction with her Son. Get Child Support orders in place ASAP. Make her pay her share.
Author mattyp Posted November 10, 2013 Author Posted November 10, 2013 Ive read up on narassist and i do see signs with her. am i basicaly the fall back guy? Y seem happy but be jealous? Woukdnt it be anger? I have mostly moments of sadness. hearing my kids talk about her and everything we do reminds me of us. Im dropping my sob off tonight and i just want to walk up and kiss her sweep her off her feet. yet the other part of me says kiss my son goodbye turn aroubd get in my car and leave. no ibteraction at alk with her. i realky as crazy as it sounds want her to chase me and regret alil. somethibg that says my 5 years wasnt a waste
Author mattyp Posted November 11, 2013 Author Posted November 11, 2013 My phone blocks some of the screen. so i dont see everything
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