djo87 Posted November 10, 2013 Posted November 10, 2013 We broke up almost 2 years ago after being together on and off for about 4 years. to sum it up, she left me for someone else without even having the courtesy of breaking up face to face, or even by phone, by nothing actually. It was really cold and inconsiderate. Yea I was really heartbroken but life goes on and got over most of it eventually. To be honest I'm still a little heart broken and angry. Anyway, I had recently moved to a new state and job about a year ago. The past year though she has been texting and calling me every now and then telling me how sorry she is and how she still misses me and still has feeling for me and she doesn't know why. Turns out things have not been the best between her and this guy for the past year. I'm ignoring most of her calls and texts but I admit I give in once in a while and answer back. I'm keeping a cool head though, telling her how messed up it was what she had done and that I'm still a little angry, but I don't hate her and wish her the best. We both know we were such a huge part of each other's lives and she still thinks about us time to time. But I keep telling her even though I do miss what we had, it would never work out and that I wouldn't be able to ever trust her again and I wouldn't want to end up together with her if the chance came up down the road. But she still calls and tries to contact me! She even wants to fly out to where I am and see me. I meant everything I told her, but I still get jealous when I think of her with someone else. Yea I do miss her but like I said, things ended up in a ugly way and I do not want to get back together with her, then why do I still get angry and sad thinking about her? Why does a part of me secretly hope it's her calling or texting me every time I hear my phone ring? It's stupid I feel like this and I don't know why. Just reaching out for some advice. thanks.
ks0985 Posted November 10, 2013 Posted November 10, 2013 The only way to handle this situation is to completly break off contact with her. Seriously your just causing more harm by staying in contact. Do you have an iPhone? if you do go to Settings - Messaging - Blocked and block her ass. Best part is you will not get any text messages or calls. You said you live in a different state right? Why the **** would you wanna do a long distance relationship anyway. Move on bro
j.gman Posted November 10, 2013 Posted November 10, 2013 Maybe there is some part of you that secretly want the relationship to work out. Are you currently dating someone? If yes, then ignore your ex and move on. If no then you can try getting back with your ex to see how it goes. People do change and 2 years is a long period time.
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