ks0985 Posted November 10, 2013 Posted November 10, 2013 (edited) Long story short i was dating a girl for the past 8 months , and Tuesday night out of the blue things came to an end ? I have the question mark because im really not too sure what is going on between us . She has been really busy with work as of late so our time spent together has not been as frequent as before . So due to that our sex has sorta been infrequent . On Tuesday night she came over and we cuddled on the couch held hands and went out for dinner , later in the night i tried to initiate sex and she backed off saying she was not in the mood . She had been doing this more as of late so i questioned her if everything was okay . She said yes but i asked again because it was not a convincing yes , she finally said that she was confused . To which i said confused about what She then said she did not know what...so i finally asked if she was still romantically interested in me to which she said she felt like maybe we were evolving more into friends . Since this came out of the blue i asked her to leave . She tried to hug me and said that she loved me so much and does not want to lose me . I basically told her that if thats how she felt that i did not feel it was best for us to be together and that i accept a breakup then . The mature thing for me to do would of probably been accept the hug but i was really upset and said just to leave . Yesterday i made eye contact with her in the mall and smiled ( i do not want to hold any hard feelings) she made eye contact with me and started crying and left the mall right away.......i really wanted to run to her and hug her but i just feel like she deserves space to figure herself out . Its now been 4 days and have not heard from her since . I feel like i should go through with this no contact unless she makes a effort to reach out to me . My question is that the best thing for me to do ? Its really crazy this girl was so into me and now for it all to end so quickly just really upsets me . Any responses would be welcomed Edited November 10, 2013 by ks0985
headinthecloud Posted November 10, 2013 Posted November 10, 2013 I think your initial reaction was completely understandable. That doesn't mean it was the right thing to do but she was not thinking of your feelings when she told you that you were more like a friend to her than a partner. I think NC is the best thing to do. From what you describe, it seems like she was checking out long before she brought it up. 1
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