andy_w Posted November 9, 2013 Posted November 9, 2013 Alright, I'll jump right into things... First off, I am aware that I'm my own worst enemy and made the pain of this worse through my own actions. One month ago I was made a ridiculously amazing job offer that I'm not even close to worth, 2100km from home into a subarctic town where I know no one. My girlfriend and I decided we could handle it for a year and then I'd come home, she could even get a workterm with me in the summer. 6 days after I arrived here, she dumped me over the phone. I was, and am, devastated. Here we are, three weeks later and have been NC, I recreated my account on POF (yeah...) and saw her. It broke my heart all over again. Shortly after, she deleted her POF account and deleted me from facebook. My judgement is very clouded right now and I know I'm reaching here, but I figure it means one of two things. Either she hates me, or was hurt by seeing me and still likes me. Thanks in advance. I appreciate any advice or insight. I still want her back, I shouldn't, but I do.
organizedchaos Posted November 9, 2013 Posted November 9, 2013 Or she was embarrassed by it, and is going nc.
Author andy_w Posted November 9, 2013 Author Posted November 9, 2013 Or she was embarrassed by it, and is going nc. It's how we met, maybe you're right, but I see no reason to be embarrassed.
esteem-jam Posted November 9, 2013 Posted November 9, 2013 You should be prepared to that - you seriously believed she will wait 1 year and you will return and everything will be the same? Happens only in movies... rare movies. In other movies the girl "does not wait". PS And hello to the girls who do wait.
Zahara Posted November 9, 2013 Posted November 9, 2013 Or maybe she just blocked you from her POF profile versus deleting it? And deleted you from FB because she wants to cut ties and move forward.
JDPT Posted November 9, 2013 Posted November 9, 2013 What's clear is that she is moving forward and so should you. Keep your priorities aligned and if she wasn't one than that clearly says a lot about the relationship. I'm not by any means saying the decision you made was bad, on the other hand, I would have made the exact same decision regardless of being "ridiculously in love". 1
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