violet1 Posted November 18, 2013 Posted November 18, 2013 It's human nature to desire being with someone in an open, full time relationship. You can only have sex with the same person over and over for so long before emotions come into play. Again, it's human nature. As far as an OW/OM "tattling" as you state it, I don't agree, but I understand. I don't agree because often times the OW/OM gets thrown under the bus and causes extra drama in his or her life. Sometimes, an affair becomes so addicting and destructive that exposure is the only way out though. The purpose of exposure is to kill the affair. Honestly, if a married person doesn't want their marriage destroyed than having an affair is NOT a wise move. I state this as an MOW who very recently ended her affair. There was no exposure on either end, it just had to stop. I didn't like the person I was becoming.
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