tegteg Posted December 17, 2004 Posted December 17, 2004 Hey all, man first its good to be back around this place.... (kiss's wall) Yuck...... Anyways..... Well this is kinda a way to fig out for me if i should attempt to ask this (semi friend) woman out. Women: 1 Would you rather be asked out.. (to go out to a movie, ice skating, lunch etc.) Straight forward Or Just kinda let the dice fall were they fall? REASON why i ask, is ive never asked to go out with woman theyve come to me. Now theres one that i think may end up being worth while and she is single again (ex broke up with her by emailing her at work what a chode) Shes Great looking, honest, caring, VERY smart (but has blode moment haha), outgoing, loves lots of what i love (which is rare in my case) haha... Etc.. U get it...... Anyways, i met her through a friend that works with me at work, building and working on cars... She comes in everynow and then and shell talk to him for a while then come over to me ask how my day is whats new round tha shop whos got the fast cars etc. and is into racing also.... We see each other from time to time at mutal friends homes and same thing just a lil chit chat. But this last time she was being flirty with me i think (poking me in my side, hitting my butt.) she says i have a nice @$$??? (maybe cause she was a lil tipsy) well she got invited to our shop x-mas party and all night me and her played pool and chatted bout lil of everything. Kinda same thing, she started being flirty? (Maybe cause she was a lil tipsy?) Just by a couple things she said, looked and acted round me, even when her bf (at the time) was there (in the living room on the couch)... Maybe she was just trying to make him jelious....??? I know there is no actual answer but would like some insite from women, hell even guys if ya have it.... Any suggestions? Or Better off to just wait and see were the dice fall??? Sooo sorry for the long post..... TIA Mr. Teggy
Merin Posted December 17, 2004 Posted December 17, 2004 Honestly.. If I have an interest in a guy.. I'm all about him just asking me straight up to go out. Have it in mind where you want to take her.. don't leave it open ended like can I call you SOMETIME.. OR MAYBE we could get together SOMETIME.. More like.. If you don't have other plans this Friday night, I was wondering if you would like to go have dinner with me? If she's interested in you the way you are in her.. she'll be down for that;)
kit4kat Posted December 18, 2004 Posted December 18, 2004 I agree with Merin-- I'd rather a guy take initiative and ask me out on an actual date then letting the dice fall, as you say. Be specific, ask her out, and see what happens. Good luck!!!
Author tegteg Posted December 18, 2004 Author Posted December 18, 2004 Well i seen her today. She invited me to a lil house party of hers.... Nothing much just some friends and bbq..... I think this may be my chance... All tho im hoping her ex is not goin to be there, he and her were roomies then hooked up now i belive he is moving out.... She told me that he was very jelious of me? And why i dont know.... hahah owell hes a chode anyways.... As far as just asking her uhh should it be in privite as in just us 2 and just simply ask if she would like to go out to eat on .......... day if shes not doing anybody, oops haha. i mean anything And yes ill have a time and place all rdy....???? BTW tomarrow should i be a lil mooore touchy feely as in more flirty type things, poking, tapping her shoulder etc.???? TIA DG
Author tegteg Posted December 19, 2004 Author Posted December 19, 2004 Well it was a looooong night.... And no i didnt ask her. I didnt feel it was the right time and place........ I went over to her house (9:00pm) and right when i walked in i felt a bad vibe, but i stayed and chatted with her and others.... Yes the ex was there and was gettin all butt hurt and jelious... Sooo i stayed out of his way and just about ended up leaving but she told me to stay and that it would be fine (its her house) and so i did (kinda feel bad tho)... So her, and the ex and the other roomie got into it, bout this and that, and i ended up being the middle man breaking it up and getting them to just let it go for the time being. Unfortchently it only worked for a lil while and it happend again so i just told her she needs to get out of the house and not have to put up with there BS (all tho she shouldnt have to leave her own house)... Me and her went to a friends of ours down the street and watched racing and snowboarding, while chatting all night.... I went to use the restroom and when i came back she was asleep (4:30am) and so i let her sleep for 30 mins and i watch the rest of the race vid. while she laid up against me... Woke her up and carryed her to my car, drove her home she gave me a hug and said thx for everything, i really appreciate it. (5:00) I wanted to say her if your not doing anything when you wake up let me take you to breakfast. But i didnt (doh) and said your more then welcome. If your ever need anything give me a call night or day... And ill call you tomarrow to see how you are and if you need anything... She said ok, and have a good night i said sleep well and relax.... (easyer said then done i know)..... Went home another 30min (5:30) Showerd went to bed (6:00am) hehe im just a bit tired now... Didnt know talking would wear ya out hehehe Soo i guess ill just wait for my time and ask her, and see if she would like something more...... (she deff. deserves it) ( having someone better i mean) Thanks for listening to me bs....... ahh much better...... If anyone has any suggestions at all about any of this, i would greatly appreciate it! Not really ever been through this so i would like some insite if at all possable.... TIA DG
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