bhockeyct11 Posted December 17, 2004 Posted December 17, 2004 After about a year and a half of steady dating, my girlfriend left me for another guy!!! She started dating him while we were still going out and I caught her out in her lies. I gave her an ultimatum , she could stay with me and never talk to him again, or go with him and I will never talk to her again. Needless to say she went off with him. For a few nights all I could think about was her but my friends helped me through it. About two weeks after she stopped talking to me she called me crying. She told me she needs me in her life blah blah blah. Then she pulled the, "I'm doing drugs now and I'm so depressed without you routine". What is she trying to do to me? I have to cancel about 27 of her calls on a nightly basis, had to block all of her AIM sn's, including the 6 she made just to talk to me, and have to turn the ringer off in my room phone. I told her I didn't want to talk to her ever again, and who would after what she did. Should I go as far as getting a restraining order? What is this girl trying to accomplish by calling me? Any help would be appreciated.
Merin Posted December 17, 2004 Posted December 17, 2004 Change your Phone number.. both land line and cell phone. Block her from sending you emails or IM's (Theres an option to block anyone not on your buddy list) Don't respond to any of her attempts at contact. Finally.. yeah if she won't stop, seek an order to restrain her crazy butt.
bebop Posted December 17, 2004 Posted December 17, 2004 Absolutely positively ditto. You've got a psychochick on your hands, dude. Do what you have to do.
Puma Posted December 17, 2004 Posted December 17, 2004 for sure blcok evertyhin for her and if she tries toshow up atur place..u have to put a restraining order cause hwo knows how far she would go? dont take that chance to find out buddy
XNemesisX Posted December 17, 2004 Posted December 17, 2004 Looks like what she is trying to accomplish is using you for comfort. Funny how some people are only there when they need YOU. (and not there for you when you need them). I don't know if this is your situation or not, but ahh well..guess that struck a chord with me. Anyway, definitely get your numbers changed. How long has this been going on? If you are set on never wanting to talk to her again (which I don't blame you) make sure to get that done. If that doesn't get through to her, and she starts coming around your house, a restraining order might be needed. Or at least an Emergency Protection Order for the time being. Sounds like this girl realizes she messed up and is now frantic to get your attention again. She is going really overboard. Doesn't sound like she is too stable.
NiCoLe20 Posted December 17, 2004 Posted December 17, 2004 this goes with the saying... ''you never know of what you have till what you have is gone''
Weird Posted December 17, 2004 Posted December 17, 2004 Agree with all of the above. Man, I am glad I don't have to deal with some crazy broad like that. Here's hoping you can deal with ti and keep your sanity.
Author bhockeyct11 Posted December 18, 2004 Author Posted December 18, 2004 Well, she pretty much gave up on the calls but she has a new scree name just about every day now. Thanks for all of your replies. At least I know that I'm not the one crazy and that I should continue to ignore her. I'm sure she will give up soon enough but if she doesn't I will take your advice to get a restraining order. I really don't want to take such drastic measures but if she doesn't get the point by now, she will.
Weird Posted December 18, 2004 Posted December 18, 2004 Damn, no wonder she is a psycho. Hopefully she grows up fast but I doubt she will. Maybe when she hits 30 she'll be normal.
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