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Hey there

 

I was the dumpee and she broke up with me about 6 months ago. We have been NC since then. I did not try to convince her to stay but accepted that she wanted to leave. I just told her that I will always love her, I hope she gets everything she wants, and that life treats her well etc. and I did not even cry in front of her.. I really did not feel anything at that time as it felt as it was her loss.

I have had dreams throughout these months where she came back and we got back together. Thoughout these months I have improved as a person but I still missed her - like I've never missed a girl before. A few days ago i saw the notebook and i finally cried over the fact that she was gone. I had not done that up to that day. When I then got to sleep I dreamt I broke up with her. Since then I have really been happy and I start to see girls that actually are prettier then her believe it or not. I also can picture my self with other girls... Which I never thought I would be able to again! What can this mean?

I also do not think of scenarios of us getting back together anymore, I just feel happy that she was a part of my life and she will always have a special place in my heart since she is my first love.

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Sorry about the breakup. Sounds like you guys just grew apart? Did you guys end on bad/good terms? Nice to know you care about your ex girlfriend. You can never get rid of that special place in your heart for your first love. I know people who hasn't forgotten their first love for years from now and it doesn't always mean you want to get back together. You guys had happy times, of course you're going to remember that.

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She loved me but not in love... I could have spent my life with her without a doubt. We ended on good terms as I just want her to be happy - with or without me. I was to clingy, not a challenge for her, I had some issues which I worked on during the relationship. I guess she also wanted to try something else as she only is 16 and I am 19. Overall we had some issues but I guess she just got tired of making it work. Also I was her 2nd choice.. So it would not have lasted.

 

I am actually really tired of telling the story :lmao:

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