BklynGuy Posted December 17, 2004 Posted December 17, 2004 Been dating a girl I work with for 2 months. We got very close at first, actually rushed it! My feelings for her got strong faster than any other girl I've ben with. I didn't take enough time to get to know her. She flirts with some guy at work. Lives with her ex, and talks to the guy she cheated on the ex with everyday. We had a fight like 2 or 3 weeks into it and I walked out on her. I was drunk and realized I had made a mistake. Ever since then, she's been pulling away. She tells me she wants to leave her ex but I dont think she does. She doesnt call me at nite anymore. Just goes to sleep and says sorry in the morning. I told her to stop pulling away and she says shes not, but the only time we talk at nite now is if I call. There have been so many red flags with this girl, but now Im getting tired. Ive been trying to stand by her, but shes not making it easy. I dont know whats going on with her ex, or the other guy. Theres the guy at work she flirts with, and I just see us heading for the wall. She tells me she loves me and wants me to be her babys daddy, but I dont see it. I feel like the timing with her is all wrong and her actions make me feel like shes pulling away still. I wish I hadnt gotten into this because it hurts being with her and it's gonna hurt to let go.
Barby Posted December 17, 2004 Posted December 17, 2004 So she's "dating" you, living with her ex boyfriend still, and talking to another man everyday? Doesn't that say something to you about the type of person she is (or is acting like) Can you really see yourself with someone like this in the future...does her "ex" know she's an "ex" or is she really still with him? How to end it? Tell her the situation is "too crowded" and for her to give you a call when you can be her "only" one??!
Miss Perfection Posted December 17, 2004 Posted December 17, 2004 DUDE, launch this broad ASAP...if you dont, be prepared to serve your balls on a silver platter. Why would you want a girl that is not showing any interest in you and lives with her ex? To tell you the truth, it sounds like she is just keeping you close because shes going to need a guy to make her "ex" jealous and to boost her ego while she gets over him. If you are willing to be her personal caketaker, go ahead. Dont say I didnt warn you though. http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html READ IT AND STUDY IT!
xxsilverdragonxx Posted December 17, 2004 Posted December 17, 2004 Originally posted by Miss Perfection DUDE, launch this broad ASAP...if you dont, be prepared to serve your balls on a silver platter. Like, I totally agree man. This is all bad....very bad......get out or you will get used.
GreenCap Posted December 18, 2004 Posted December 18, 2004 BrooklynGuy You thing it hurts just thinking of letting her go; wait until she betrays you and rips out your soul, heart etc. then you know what hurts. Get out when you still can... there's enough postings in this forum for you to read up on how many people feel like dying or sought counseling because of what their exes did to them. Dude, I am not trying to scare you. Just don't want you to end up like me, pissing away a career, life and happiness because of what my ex did to me.
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