krista28 Posted November 9, 2013 Posted November 9, 2013 why does this happen? so..recently i went on a date with aguy from work. i asked him to go out for drinks. when we made plans the first time, he cancelled once. i guess i hadnt contacted him in the right amount of time. so...we went out for drinks, he paid. but proceeded to i guess not think of it as a date..he was constatntly talking about other girls..how girls at work were hot..etcetera..i am a pretty good lookin girl myself..but its like he was talking abotu anyone and everyone. i get the feeling hes a sociopath. anyhow...apparantly my friend warned him against me she said not to sleep with me that i was a good girl...so i went over the other night and hungout with him...he sleeps with me...and then proceeds to not talk to me at all for a week. i promised not to tell anyone what happened ( we know eachother from work part time). so i told my friend about it cuz i was mad that also knows him. she proceeded to text him in angry messaging...and around the same time i got a text from him answering all of the messages i had tried to text him that week. his response was that he was out of town looking for work all week. how hard is it to drop one text message?? so he is now mad at me for telling me friend at work and this is "his life" hes worried about. so basically i am an idiot..the guy wasnt into me..however i am not sure why..i am decent looking...i guess sometimes a guy is just not into you...anyhow...what do i do now...i have to work with this guy..guess i gotta act mature.
Treasa Posted November 9, 2013 Posted November 9, 2013 You stop seeing him, act professional, and stop sleeping with guys if they're talking about other girls and don't seem to want to be with you. By the way...how you look has no bearing at all on how guys will treat you. How you LET people treat you is what determines that. 1
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