update of whats been going on

[haggard969]

so anyways, i haven't been on here in a few weeks, but i just want some insight on what you all think.ive been keeping busy, at work and with my daughter, ive had my ups and down days. my ex has been texting me. some of them are just stupid texts, others are serious, the last one she sent was " if you move i want to move with you" i didnt respond, a week later i got a call from a private number. it was her. i shouldnt of answerd, i mostly just listened, she was just asking normal how are you doing crap. i responded with one word answers, then she started talking about what she meant about moving with me. she said, i want to one day be with you, but not in this city, i want to save money first, then she started talking about how shes young n she wants to experience more n wants me to wait practically until shes done dating her bf(well thats practically what shes been saying, i was holding the phone away from my ear for most of it).i know she only said she wants to be with me in another city because alot of people lost respect for her here, alot of people dont like her now for what she did to me, but at the same time shes trying to impress other people for "finally" leaving me, pathetic.

 

anyways, she tried to make the end of the phone call sound all sad towards me like she felt sorry for me, but i didnt give a damb, she was like, i really feel bad n ill miss you n crap, i was like OK BYE CLICK, god the nerve, shes calling me to give me sympathy that i dont need, and she texts me to get her i hopes up , that ill get my hopes up so that she cant reject my hopes. lol man what a gong show, why are some people just so retarded, a month ago i would have died for this girl, now im seeing like this side of her that i have never seen, has anyone else experienced BS like this, like wow i should be in jail because i musta been dating a child. So thats where i am at now. just been working n going to the gym. finally started eating again after being depressed. i was down to 143 now im 150 n i was 170, shows how much damage a broken heart can do, anyways, if you have good insight or similar experiences dropit in the box.

[faithfully]

Can i ask why u still entertaining her by replying even if its 1 word answer?? If you ignore her eventually she will stop. Am sure

[xUnknown]

so anyways, i haven't been on here in a few weeks, but i just want some insight on what you all think.ive been keeping busy, at work and with my daughter, ive had my ups and down days. my ex has been texting me. some of them are just stupid texts, others are serious, the last one she sent was " if you move i want to move with you" i didnt respond, a week later i got a call from a private number. it was her. i shouldnt of answerd, i mostly just listened, she was just asking normal how are you doing crap. i responded with one word answers, then she started talking about what she meant about moving with me. she said, i want to one day be with you, but not in this city, i want to save money first, then she started talking about how shes young n she wants to experience more n wants me to wait practically until shes done dating her bf(well thats practically what shes been saying, i was holding the phone away from my ear for most of it).i know she only said she wants to be with me in another city because alot of people lost respect for her here, alot of people dont like her now for what she did to me, but at the same time shes trying to impress other people for "finally" leaving me, pathetic.

 

anyways, she tried to make the end of the phone call sound all sad towards me like she felt sorry for me, but i didnt give a damb, she was like, i really feel bad n ill miss you n crap, i was like OK BYE CLICK, god the nerve, shes calling me to give me sympathy that i dont need, and she texts me to get her i hopes up , that ill get my hopes up so that she cant reject my hopes. lol man what a gong show, why are some people just so retarded, a month ago i would have died for this girl, now im seeing like this side of her that i have never seen, has anyone else experienced BS like this, like wow i should be in jail because i musta been dating a child. So thats where i am at now. just been working n going to the gym. finally started eating again after being depressed. i was down to 143 now im 150 n i was 170, shows how much damage a broken heart can do, anyways, if you have good insight or similar experiences dropit in the box.

Wow man...I lost about 8 pounds and got down to 164, now I'm back to 170 and look/feel great. I told myself I would use this weightloss to get cut again (I was kind of during a maintain/bulk phase of lifting but wanted to get lean again). Anyways, yeah she really needs to get her **** together. She's tryin to manipulate her to feeling bad for her, what nerve. NEXT!

[haggard969]

yeah, i shouldnt of answered, i have a hard time being an Ahole even if i have hate for someone, i guess i just have to change my number, location, and email

[faithfully]

yeah, i shouldnt of answered, i have a hard time being an Ahole even if i have hate for someone, i guess i just have to change my number, location, and email

 

Its ok not having a go. You have to stay strong tell yourself, enough with her bull****, you dont wanna know and you couldnt give a flying fu#k. Just change your number. Dont change your location. Why should you have to move

 

Pffffttt she can piss off

[JDPT]

I think you have the fundamental understanding that it's utterly detrimental that you continue communication with her. It's time to put all of this out of its misery for your sake. I commend you for proactively engaging in activities to propel your recovery. Now you just need to tweak a few things here and there. You have indulged enough in her contacting you and stroking your ego, now it's time to move on.

[gmsunshine]

Move on, you are emotionally removed anyway. You don't need the stress and she doesn't need to hang on to hope.