jasin1286 Posted November 8, 2013 Posted November 8, 2013 here's my problem my gf always visits her friend everytime im not home. when i leave to work or go wash my truck or anything I have to do away from our apt she takes off for hours almost every time I leave home. first she sugar coat a text msg like "baby I love u then says babe im going to Diana's house for a while". its drives me crazy at work I start thinking all sort of things. it never bothered me before but now its makes my wounder why she need to visit her friend all the time. oh she a good girl I trust her but its her friends sons that considers me there younger guys (momma boys with no lives)who like to hit on every girl. What should I do I dont want to fight and argue with her cause I know if I questioned her she gets all mad.
salparadise Posted November 9, 2013 Posted November 9, 2013 Well, at least it's a female friend she's going to see. Does the friend ever come to visit at your house? I don't know what to think about the friend's son. Hopefully you should be able to judge whether or not he's part of this equation. I had a girlfriend once who was always going to hang out with a male friend and she assured me it was completely innocent and platonic. Turned out "the friend" was gettin' it more regularly than me! She was BSC. I knew something wasn't right but she was a sex freak and I couldn't see the forest for the trees. But back to your situation... if this girl isn't able to sit still for five minutes, regardless of who she's going to see, that's indicative of issues unknown (red flag). I'd figure out what's up with behavior because it's bothering you already and is not what I'd consider normal and stable (unless they're teenagers, which I assume they're not).
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