natwilliams Posted November 8, 2013 Posted November 8, 2013 I am wondering what people think about inviting out more than one unrelated women I know out to a date. Part of the reason I started thinking about this is because I get so much flakeage that if I really want to have a fun saturday night I have to invite more than just one girl out. Probably 4 or 5 invites if I want 1 or 2 to say yes. Personally I have no problem with combining social relationships and letting everyone I know meet everyone else. In fact I enjoy bringing people together. The only problem is that some girls might get totally hit by surprise and be uncomfortable. I personally think it's fine especially because girls do that to me ALL THE TIME. I schedule what I thought was a hot date, only to show up and there she is with three other guys. So I'm thinking I should start doing the same. Again it's mainly just because I want to ensure I have someone to hang with. Lately I have been really casual and informal about my dating process because of the smaller community I just moved to. What do you guys think?
Mascara Posted November 8, 2013 Posted November 8, 2013 What do you guys think? That you've taken leave of your senses and will die alone? 8
dreamingoftigers Posted November 8, 2013 Posted November 8, 2013 That you've taken leave of your senses and will die alone? When I'm done my shift, I am nominating this for quote of the week.
MercuryMorrison1 Posted November 9, 2013 Posted November 9, 2013 I personally think it's fine especially because girls do that to me ALL THE TIME. I schedule what I thought was a hot date, only to show up and there she is with three other guys. You're investing in the WRONG girls if this is the case. Much like any potential girls you might take out would be investing in the WRONG guy if they were to be accepting of this. A date, even casual one's are generally about getting to know each other on an intimate level. You can't be intimate with someone in a dating scenario if they feel like they are competing against two or three others for your affection. Personally I wouldn't stand for it...If I went on date with a girl and showed up only to find her there with two other dudes on each arm, I would turn right back around and walk out, no time wasted. I'm willing to bet that unless you have something VERY special to offer these women...Like, I dunno, a small fortune? Then you will likely see similar results. Otherwise, why else would they put up with this BS?
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