Today was supposed to be our 3 Year anniversary

[Froelich87]

How do you think she is feeling? :/

[TylerDurdenn]

I don't know, where you with her a week or 2 years and 11 months?

[Froelich87]

2 Years and 10 months

[Mariposa10]

Aaah, thank goodness my ex and I never celebrated any anniversaries. I don't know when our anniversary would've been. I guess the only date we did keep in mind was the month when we met...

 

Anyway, enough of me. I don't think it's healthy for you to think about this anniversary. You should be with you friends right now, enjoying the sun/rain whatever is happening where you live.

 

Go out, we can die anytime!!

 

Good luck.

[xUnknown]

She knows....she's feeling it. My ex broke up with me 3 weeks before our 2 year...she sent me a text "I'm thinking about you today. I want you to know you're never far from my thoughts and hope everything with you project [from work] is going okay". I never responded, Just a breadcrumb.

 

But yes, she is probably hurting. Was she dumpee or dumper? Either way, she knows what today is and shes feeling it.

[Froelich87]

She was the dumper... I guess.

 

I never got a text. I guess that's a good thing?

[d0nnivain]

She may be feeling a little melenchonly but she also may be thrilled/relieved it's over. We don't know her.

 

Whatever she is feeling, it's probably not that she wants to get back together.

[xUnknown]

She was the dumper... I guess.

 

I never got a text. I guess that's a good thing?

 

Good, bad...it doesn't matter. My text I didn't see as a good thing. I saw it as bad - your bugging me when I'm trying to get over you, you're being selfish.

 

Whatever the case is, it doesn't matter if you get a text. Hearing from her will only get your hopes up and make you want to break NC. Don't. Don't give the thought the time of day. If she does...view the text as a "K" text like I did...but don't get your hopes up expecting one. She knows what today is. Girls always remember that crap.

[30andsad]

Hi Froelich,

 

Sorry to hear. I recently had my birthday just 2 weeks after the end of a 4 year relationship (speaking of, she told me she was living on our 4 year anniversary for a break, left the next day, broke up two weeks later).

 

Believe me, I feel you. These kind of days definitely make it harder, but they are just bumps in the road. Try to stay busy and keep your mind off of it the best you can.

 

My ex texted me on my brithday with a sweet breadcrumb, but I found out later my mom had invited her to my birthday party and she said "I appreciate the invite, but I am having dinner with a friend." So, the text was nothing other than a breadcrumb -- almost might have been just as well to not receive it.

 

Every time I hear something somewhat positive from her I get a little bit of a rush/high from it, but it's temporary and then I fall deeper into the despair. So, it's not worth it.

 

Keep on pushing on!

[xUnknown]

In all honesty, you don't want her to text you. It will just set you back. It did for me. Now I'm hoping for more breadcrumbs because I want to be on her mind...You don't want this.