prion Posted December 17, 2004 Posted December 17, 2004 So i married this amazing girl i met in school, we had known each other for about 6 months together. then we parted ways, still keeping in contact everyday, maybe too much, but keeping in good contact. We decided that we should get married ill spare details, and justifictation of marriage. I say justification of my marriage becuase im 19, its not the youngest ever, but its pretty close. Now we have never really had to many troubles, little fights here and there but lately we were fighting a lot. about stupid stuff, almost any topic brought up was good enough to fight about. then we figured it was just tension, and we got over it. we talked a little less, that seemed to fix everything. well with my job comes big inspections, i dont want to give to many details cause i dont feel comfortable, but ive been working the last 20 days straight, physical, mental everything any kind of labor you can think of. The stress ive been having comes down to her being my only outlet, i havent even complained, i might complain about somestuff but she has been too busy for me. we barley get to talk 15mins everyother day if that. after 600 my night is open. but she gets off work at 800 my time. i call her and she says she is busy, she has stuff to get done, maybe she can call later, (which she knows i cant talk long cause i need to go to bed early, have to work 600 to 600.) if she says she isnt busy she says she wants to go out to movies, or clubs, or bbqs' at friends houses. one of the reasons i need her so bad is because she is like my only friend. i just moved here and had some friends, but she would constantly want to talk earlier, so ditching friends for her kind of lost me my friends, i have no other person to talk to, and people i work with dont really feel like getting to know me so much now, because im leaving in 5 months, to go live with her, nobody wants to make the effort for a friend, and just lose the friend i guess. i dont understand that either living a military life 98% of my life, im used to making and losing friends as fast as the seasons, and i guess that doesnt go well in the civillian side. what it boils down too is that im scared she might be cheating on me (if yall didnt figure that out yet). then how am i supposed to deal with her just not wanting to talk to me anymore, i changed everything for her. then i told her how i felt and that made things a little worse, she said she felt bad, and would try to think of me more, but nothing has changed really. did i make it worse by being truthful, i thoughts that how your supposed, to be. i just feel hopeless, and kidna empty.. i dont know what to do anymore. im welcome to anyhelpi think i might of kinda ranted so if there are any questions feel free to post.
bebop Posted December 17, 2004 Posted December 17, 2004 This evidently is a long-distance thing; have you looked at that section of these boards? Maybe there's helpful stuff there for you. *hugs*
bebop Posted December 17, 2004 Posted December 17, 2004 Ooops, we ARE in LDR. Oh geez, haven't caught up on my sleep entirely *laughing at myself*. SORRY. I'm sure someone here will talk to you about it.
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