Keenly Posted November 8, 2013 Posted November 8, 2013 LOL! Dude, you are over the top. If I met a girl who had a bush, I have NO problems telling her to shave that crap and wouldn't think any less of her if she did. I'd be grateful! I want to be with someone who will compromise / submit over simple / easy / non-important stuff as I would to her. Compromise / Submitting is a VOLUNTARY ACT that two people CHOOSE to do out of love. It's not a POWER TRIP and EVIL!! If she was asking me to quit visiting my family, hanging with my friends, quitting a hobby, etc. that is a whole different ball game. I know I sound ridiculous. Imagine living it. I am not the way that I am because I simply wanted to be so..... stupid about certain things. I am the way that I am because of the things I have personally experienced. After I was out of that situation I told myself I would never lose who I was to please some one else ever again. Compromise? Sure. Doing things to make her happy? Absolutely. Changing who I am in order to please her? No sir.
FitChick Posted November 9, 2013 Posted November 9, 2013 Tell him you have sensitive skin and you know from dating guys with beards and mustaches before that it gives you a rash. As far as him regaining the weight, watch what he eats. It's fine that he works out but diet is more important in weight loss. You could gradually steer him to eating more healthful, filling foods in small amounts because you know more than he does. You could also do it stealthily by cooking most meals for him at his place or yours. If he has a weakness for sweets, for example, when you go out to eat, don't go to places known for having rich desserts. You can have little treats at your house for him, like Larabars or Kind bars, which are dried fruit and nuts and a bit sweet. If he is a chip and dip guy, instead of cheese, have hummus with whole grain pita chips and fresh salsa. Alcohol is empty calories. He may drink more than you like. You won't know until you date him longer. I am picturing this dude looking like Zach Galifianakis.
StanMusial Posted November 9, 2013 Posted November 9, 2013 Tell him how sexy you think he'd look clean shaven. He also might be doing it for hunting season. Many men do It can get mighty chilly sitting in a deer stand before dawn. OP make sure you have a hot meal on the table when he comes home for lunch.
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