mendsley Posted November 8, 2013 Posted November 8, 2013 (edited) The ex bitch sent me a text demanding I give her money for last months phone bill. It amazes me how she forgot how when she left she took $4000 and left me and my son with pennies to live on for the rest of the month. I told her "HELL NO" and if she thinks I owe her money, we should meet up and we'll go over the back bank statements. I also told her that if she does not want to look over the bills to figure this out to lose my contact information and now she is someone elses problem. She replied back saying how she is the sought after one and I will be lonely for the rest of my life being disrespected by everyone. I REALLY want to retort, but I decided to type here instead, but if anyone thinks I should give her a piece of my mind speak up, I would love that more than anything... PLEASE GIVE ME A REASON! I'm really angry right now and nothing would make me feel better than to talk mad **** to her. She is a selfish piece of **** who gave up her kids because she was too lazy to read the divorce decree before signing. I supported her pathetic ass for months while she was out of work and I expected nothing in return. I helped her finish her degree so she can get a better job. I treated her like a ****ing queen and this is how she repays me? **** her! I hope to god there is such a thing as karma so this bitch can get what's coming to her. She is so naive, many men will hit and quit it for the rest of her life and I hope everyone brings emotional pain. She used me and I blame myself for allowing this. I have been used and thrown around my whole life and I knew this drama queen would turn love into hatred. She thrives off that **** and I hate how I've became victim to her emotional mind ****. God I really want to email this bitch back and let her know all things that I have been keeping deep inside me, but I'm not. I hope she looks back on this and figures out what she did/doing is not right and karma will give her what she's doing to me. Sorry for the rant, but it's preventing me from doing something I know I would regret later in life. Peace - Mike Edited November 8, 2013 by mendsley
AnyaNova Posted November 8, 2013 Posted November 8, 2013 As much as you might want to, it sounds like she is the type of person who would respond by hurting you even more. Don't do it. You have been hurt enough. Take back your power by living a awesome life. By having the kind of love that she is preventing herself from ever knowing. You deserve it. 2
Author mendsley Posted November 8, 2013 Author Posted November 8, 2013 The divorce decree was from her ex husband. I was days away from asking her to marry me, and if there is a god, he just saved my ass. I cannot believe the person she really is... god im glad im seeing it now and not when it's too late. 3
Balzac Posted November 8, 2013 Posted November 8, 2013 That was my surmise. You need to drop to your knees man and thank whomever is your higher power. Sorry she swept your account. Sorry you invested so much. You'll recoup. You'll be back in the game. She on-the-other-hand is toxic waste. Dodged a bullet.
toolforgrowth Posted November 8, 2013 Posted November 8, 2013 Don't reply. She's egging you on. She's hurting financially and is coming to you for money. You tell her to go **** herself. Naturally, that irritates her so she says how you'll be alone, blah blah blah. Going NC now is exactly what I would do. It leaves her with you standing up for yourself, telling her NO in no uncertain terms, and by not responding to her taunts, it gives you your power back. It shows her "I don't care what you think about me." When my ex wife was knee deep in her affair, she found every reason under the sun to demean me. It got to the point where I just didn't care anymore. I literally told her "You're perfectly welcome to whatever opinion you may have about me. I just don't care." And left it at that. I didn't try to defend myself, or say "No, I'm such a great guy and this is why!" None of that. I was totally indifferent to what she thought of me. That indifference is the worst thing they can ever feel from you. 2
Balzac Posted November 8, 2013 Posted November 8, 2013 Clean up your accounts. Modify your passwords. What possible reason exists to have contact w her? Secure your personal boundaries.
Author mendsley Posted November 8, 2013 Author Posted November 8, 2013 Thanks everyone for the feedback. I'm calming down now and am soooo glad I didn't play into her little game. At this point there is no reason for me to respond or initiate any contact. If she sends me anything I won't read it and delete that ****. Time to go running and get my frustrations out! 1
AnnaAnna Posted November 8, 2013 Posted November 8, 2013 Thanks everyone for the feedback. I'm calming down now and am soooo glad I didn't play into her little game. At this point there is no reason for me to respond or initiate any contact. If she sends me anything I won't read it and delete that ****. Time to go running and get my frustrations out! You already got some great advices from previous posters so I don't have much to say. I am just really glad you didn't send her an email when you were really upset. She obviously wanted you to reply, I think she's was looking for a fight. She will be really upset knowing you didn't give her that satisfaction. Giving her a silent treatment will hurt her so much more.
Author mendsley Posted November 8, 2013 Author Posted November 8, 2013 Thanks Anna, I fully agree.... now that my mind is clearing up. You guys are awesome btw... great advice ;-) 1
AnnaAnna Posted November 8, 2013 Posted November 8, 2013 Thanks Anna, I fully agree.... now that my mind is clearing up. You guys are awesome btw... great advice ;-) You did the right thing by coming on here first. This is a great place to vent. Glad you're feeling better Stay strong!
Nubcake Posted November 8, 2013 Posted November 8, 2013 I know the feeling, sometimes I wanted to really let my ex have it when she completely deserved to like yours. I held back and glad I did even though it felt like the right thing to do at the time. Didn't stop my ex for letting me have it when she got angry =p
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