holybety Posted November 7, 2013 Posted November 7, 2013 I need some advice to help my brother who now think that he is a horrible cheater. He met and dated a girl for a month and broke up with her cause they didn't get along. But they are maintained friend and get along much better. They are still really like each other and both sometime still feel tempting to have sex. About 10 days ago, he met a new girl and took her out for fancy massage as she asked for, dinner, hotel room for her and her kid to enjoyed the luxury, but he didn't have sex with her yet. She promised him to give him the family he wants if they work out, she said she doesn't mind if he is friend with his ex as long as nothing happen. He loves that he is hearing from her so he going to pay for her school in 2 weeks. Two nights ago, he went to his ex house to visit her son, he had some drink before he came over and asked her to make some more for him. Then they watch movie in the living room and end up had sex by the end of the night, and they both had a great time. He felt horrible of himself after that as a cheater. I try to tell him that since he didn't sleep with his new girl yet, he is only disappointed her trust but that wasn't cheating on her. He feels so ashamed of himself now. What should I say to help him? Is he a chester?
Phantom888 Posted November 8, 2013 Posted November 8, 2013 Of course he's a cheater. You don't have to sleep with someone to cheat on them. If you are dating them, and sleep with anyone else, that's cheating. Then again, you can argue there is no such thing as cheating before you are married. As long as there is no marriage involved, you are still free to sleep with anyone you want. If you take this approach, he is not a cheater. There is no such thing as the truth....it's all about perspectives.
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