Dumped85 Posted November 7, 2013 Posted November 7, 2013 Can't stop thinking about ex in an intimate way, how do you cope? 1
im_thedude Posted November 7, 2013 Posted November 7, 2013 Just grit your teeth and bear with it. If you stay in strict NC, including not looking at your ex's social media and not digging up old photos of you two, then eventually you'll start to forget what she even looks like. That exact way her head fit on your shoulder, the way your hands clasped together, how she laughed when being tickled. And yes, sexual memories as well. If you think you're ready for it, I say hop in the sack with someone else. You're single now!
Blastoplast Posted November 7, 2013 Posted November 7, 2013 Just grit your teeth and bear with it. If you stay in strict NC, including not looking at your ex's social media and not digging up old photos of you two, then eventually you'll start to forget what she even looks like. That exact way her head fit on your shoulder, the way your hands clasped together, how she laughed when being tickled. And yes, sexual memories as well. If you think you're ready for it, I say hop in the sack with someone else. You're single now! Great advice and insight. Best to try to block out anything that reminds you of your EX. for me, finding a nice FWB for a few months was critical to me getting completely over thoughts of my EX. She was cuter than my EX, very willing and it gave me a confidence booster. We knew our boundaries, it was fun while it lasted and I have no regrets! 1
Nubcake Posted November 7, 2013 Posted November 7, 2013 I can't stop the thoughts either. When they get too bad I start to cry and afterwards I feel a little better. I wish I would cry more often it always softens the pain.
Author Dumped85 Posted November 7, 2013 Author Posted November 7, 2013 Its difficult and frustrating, sucks she was the last person iv been with. Going on 5 months.
seekingpeaceinlove Posted November 8, 2013 Posted November 8, 2013 Tell me about it. I want to sleep with my ex so bad it hurts. Not interested in getting back with him but damn do I want him to... It's been 3 months. Sucks.
Shashasha Posted November 9, 2013 Posted November 9, 2013 Urgh / me too. I have ben thinking of my ex in a sexual way and getting really horny. It sucks - but i try to distract myself and not beat myself too much about it.
Author Dumped85 Posted November 13, 2013 Author Posted November 13, 2013 Been 5 months now, coming this weekend. I hate it, especially since I feel my insecurities led to the break up.
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