questionheart Posted November 7, 2013 Posted November 7, 2013 Ive been wanting my ex back forever. We started talking again and he actually agreed to come over. Then he wanted to cuddle with me. I couldnt even believe it was happening. But I laid next to him , stiff and scared. I mean I just didnt know what to do.....So I just laid there and he just laid there.... I didnt make a move and he didnt make a move......he eventually just got up and left....it was weird and lame.......but I mean......its not all my fault right? I mean ....... did I just ruin some great opportunity? I mean if he really wanted to be with me he would have done something right? I guess I was just so scared of being hurt. I mean, yes he wanted to cuddle but .... he didnt say anything else. He didnt make it clear that he wanted to get back together or anything so I didnt do anything....and neither did he.... well I havent heard from him at all today. I feel awful.....*sigh*... but this isnt all on me right???????
lindsay1990 Posted November 7, 2013 Posted November 7, 2013 Without knowing backstory, I'll give a kind of jaded but practical response: 1. That was a breadcrumb. A physical one, but still crumbs. 2. He isn't afraid to get hurt, he just felt guilty and it didn't feel good so he split. Would not contact him. 1
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