Blastoplast Posted November 7, 2013 Posted November 7, 2013 Is this a more common trait for men than woman? For example, I've been dating this woman for nearly 3 months and we get along really well and I'm falling pretty hard for her. But I'm constantly wondering what she thinks of me, does she feel the same way? I noticed she's been shorter on texts lately, and then it got me analyzing if she's still into me. Well last night she calls me, and says that she's making her plans for the weekend and was wondering what mine were. So here I am, trying not to call her, trying not to play my cards too hard and then SHE goes ahead and initiates and wants to set aside time from her busy schedule to see me! Now we'll see each other only a little bit on Saturday, but we have plans for next Thursday to see a concert together, and we both live an hour apart. I don't know where I'm going with this, but I feel that personally the more I really like somebody, the more I am apt to over-think it versus just going with the flow and being myself. I was wondering do women do the same thing, or is this more of a male thing?
Uwaae Posted November 8, 2013 Posted November 8, 2013 Its the overthinking that gets you into trouble too. Go with the flow. Do not think, Whenever you're thinking, "I wonder what she's feeling right now" just grab your left nut and squeeze it real hard, and remember youre a man. lol
BlametheIrish Posted November 8, 2013 Posted November 8, 2013 (edited) I don't think its a trait that needs to be assigned to either gender. Some people over analyze things and some don't. I tend to over analyze things all to often leaving me wishing more people were as blunt as myself. My life would be much easier that way, but I've got thick skin Edited November 8, 2013 by BlametheIrish typos
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