BC1980 Posted December 6, 2013 Posted December 6, 2013 She continued to text me about her illness today, so after work I went to a shop and bought medicine, flowers, drink and chocolate for her and surprised her after work.. She was very happy to see me again and appreciated the gifts. When will I learn? These are the most dangerous types of exes, and I know because my ex is similar. They welcome the company and just don't see why you can't be friends. My ex and I would see each other after the breakup, and he would act like nothing had changed. It took me a few months to learn sadly. My ex even sent me a birthday gift a few weeks ago, and I was foolish enough to break NC and call him. It was such a disaster, and he told me that maybe in a few years we could be together. There have been several instances like this, but the most recent was the final straw for me. You need militant NC with an ex who really wants a friendship after a breakup. They are a hard habit to kick. I think it's hard to believe the new reality if you keep seeing your ex. It doesn't become real until you do hardcore NC. It really sucks for a few months, but it seems like that pain makes it real. I miss what I had with my ex, but the truth is that it's so far beyond repair at this point. I could never trust him again. 1
AnyaNova Posted December 6, 2013 Posted December 6, 2013 Something strange is happening today. Can you elaborate on this?
MoooOinkBaaa Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 He's Tyler Durden, something strange is happening everyday with him.
Mariposa10 Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 I know how you feel, how after a breakup when you find you miss them it is always the version we fell in love with, and you constantly have to re tell yourself that person doesn't even exist anymore! This is sooo true!! I need to keep reminding myself of this.
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