starla33 Posted November 7, 2013 Posted November 7, 2013 I hung with this guy for a year casually we were always cool. He said something really rude/disrespectful so i told him to leave me alone and we stopped talking. He sent me a letter apologizing and I never replied. That and the fact I wanted a relationship and he didn't was just not working out. Hes now working in my building and I saw him yesterday right in front of me when I was leaving and OH MY GOD i've never felt so awkward in my life. I just ran the other direction. This is not how I want to act. So I reached out today and asked if he wanted to grab lunch. Have not heard back yet...and I thought he would jump at the chance haha. Boy am I stupid. stupid stupid stupid. Where does he get off ignoring me when he was the one that screwed up? I'm just being a mature adult and trying to get rid of the awkwardness I felt when I saw him
Zahara Posted November 7, 2013 Posted November 7, 2013 (edited) That's the thing, the "awkwardness" is the product of concoctions in your own head. You've chosen to be awkward. And then you chose to fix YOUR "awkwardness" by inviting him to lunch. The thing is, he probably doesn't even care. Your last thread, responses were to just be normal and casual. Somehow, I think you are using the excuse of "awkwardness" to invite him out so that you can test the waters again. You're not mature at all. It's all your ego. The fact that you thought he would jump at lunch, that you are upset that he is ignoring you and that you are entitled to having him meet you because he screwed up is a very telling sign that you just aren't over it. Be honest with your motives. Edited November 7, 2013 by Zahara
BlueIvy Posted November 7, 2013 Posted November 7, 2013 I hung with this guy for a year casually we were always cool. He said something really rude/disrespectful so i told him to leave me alone and we stopped talking. He sent me a letter apologizing and I never replied. That and the fact I wanted a relationship and he didn't was just not working out. Hes now working in my building and I saw him yesterday right in front of me when I was leaving and OH MY GOD i've never felt so awkward in my life. I just ran the other direction. This is not how I want to act. So I reached out today and asked if he wanted to grab lunch. Have not heard back yet...and I thought he would jump at the chance haha. Boy am I stupid. stupid stupid stupid. Where does he get off ignoring me when he was the one that screwed up? I'm just being a mature adult and trying to get rid of the awkwardness I felt when I saw him Why feel awkward, forget him, easier said than done. Well, why do you care if he was disrespectful before? There is nothing to be said or done but forget him.
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