countryrider13 Posted November 7, 2013 Posted November 7, 2013 So Co-workers were talking about boyfriends being bad kissers. this is just a curious question but could you date someone long term, possibly marry someone who is a bad kisser? Or does that somewhat go along the lines of sexually compatable? I personally think kissing is so personal and intimate. curious as to what all your thoughts are
soccerrprp Posted November 7, 2013 Posted November 7, 2013 So Co-workers were talking about boyfriends being bad kissers. this is just a curious question but could you date someone long term, possibly marry someone who is a bad kisser? Or does that somewhat go along the lines of sexually compatable? I personally think kissing is so personal and intimate. curious as to what all your thoughts are I've been lucky to date some amazing kissers (imo) and currently dating a fabulous woman who wasn't as amazing...note, I said "wasn't." You can teach and show someone what you like. So, could I date someone who is a bad kisser? Sure. Part of the fun would be getting to show her how I like it done. 2
Zahara Posted November 7, 2013 Posted November 7, 2013 So Co-workers were talking about boyfriends being bad kissers. this is just a curious question but could you date someone long term, possibly marry someone who is a bad kisser? Or does that somewhat go along the lines of sexually compatable? I personally think kissing is so personal and intimate. curious as to what all your thoughts are I went out on a couple of dates with a younger guy. He was 25 and I was in my early 40s. First kiss. He darted his tongue in my mouth and was slobbering all over my face. Blech. I stopped him and I said I couldn't keep on kissing him if that was how he was going to do it. I then said let me show you how. And I showed him. He turned out to be a good student. Bad kissing doesn't have to be permanent if you know how to lead and show someone whats a turn on and what isn't. Show them how good it feels and I bet they'll learn really quickly. These things are fixable. 4
startinganew777 Posted November 7, 2013 Posted November 7, 2013 My ex husband was an amazing kisser. I have dated quite a few guys after we divorced a couple years ago and only two of them made me melt with their kisses. They were the guys that were truly into me but it didn't work out for one reason or another. The others were either timid, didn't kiss much or it felt forced or they wouldn't even open their mouth. These guys ended up being players, dating other people or still pining for their ex and just were not that into me. Kissing is my favorite and very intimate to me. I really do believe when they say, "it is in his kiss". So yes, I pay more attention and if the kissing doesn't get better and I feel he is not into after a certain amount of time together, I walk away.
AnyaNova Posted November 7, 2013 Posted November 7, 2013 So Co-workers were talking about boyfriends being bad kissers. this is just a curious question but could you date someone long term, possibly marry someone who is a bad kisser? Or does that somewhat go along the lines of sexually compatable? I personally think kissing is so personal and intimate. curious as to what all your thoughts are I have, myself. You can improve them a lot with cut up fruit and a game of "get the fruit." They'll be so distracted with that, that you can "teach" them some things while their busy trying to get the fruit, they pick up the hints and the ideas, and don't realize the they are being, "taught " No conversation or awkwardness needed.
WhiteButton Posted November 7, 2013 Posted November 7, 2013 This was one of those things that used to freak me out but after i had my first kiss or make out session i realized that i was good at it and it just came natural for me. For some reason i was always under impression that girls are pros at making out - but that is not true i have made out with some girls that i was like WTF! lol but the good thing is if you keep at it usually both sides find the rhythm.
OpheliaSong Posted November 8, 2013 Posted November 8, 2013 Slobbery kisses are the worst. I also hate bad breath.
Kate9292 Posted November 8, 2013 Posted November 8, 2013 So Co-workers were talking about boyfriends being bad kissers. this is just a curious question but could you date someone long term, possibly marry someone who is a bad kisser? Or does that somewhat go along the lines of sexually compatable? I personally think kissing is so personal and intimate. curious as to what all your thoughts are No. Bad kissing is a turn off right away. I have pushed several guys away from makeout session when they got over the top crazy with tongue shoving it down my throat to the point I was about to gag. Ewwww! What made them think it was a good idea?
Recommended Posts