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So Yesterday I received a package from my ex's parents. (My ex and I are 1 month post BU-2week break before then) I didn't realize it today until I left my apartment for work and it was sitting on the welcome mat. I thought about opening it then, but put it in my apartment for when I return from work this evening. A little background info, 2 weeks ago I sent her parents and sister a letter (addressed it to them, not ex), basically thanking them for everything they've done, supporting me, welcoming me into their family etc. I never heard back from them - didn't expect to.

 

Anyways, My thoughts are, should I open the package, or let it sit until I'm healed. Text ex's mom and say "Hey I got your package, I just want to know if there is anything that could hinder my healing process. If there is I would prefer not to open it until I feel comfortable so I won't set myself back - assuming there is nothing perishable inside". It was a small 8x8 or so sized box (maybe even 6x6 idk). My worries are that it would be something from my ex that her mom shipped to me - but I don't think either of them would do such a thing that would hurt me as such.

 

Just looking for opinions, but I think ultimately, I will end up opening it. I figure if I do not open it, it will eat at me, wondering what's inside. I can text her mom and sort of get a heads up about whats in there - if it is something that would set me back, I wouldn't open it-obviously. I feel like I'm damned if I do, damned if I don't situation. I've got to make the decision for my own - which seems to be my problem with this whole break-up --I over-analyze everything.

 

Thank you.

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LOL! Really dude? Did her folks ever do anything to hurt you? I guess the answer is "no". Therefore, I don't think they would start now. Just open the damn box.

 

And it would be the best time to open it while everything is still fresh. You don't want to be well into your healing process, then open the box and it knock you back a few pegs. Think of it as pulling the bandaid off quickly.

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LOL! Really dude? Did her folks ever do anything to hurt you? I guess the answer is "no". Therefore, I don't think they would start now. Just open the damn box.

 

And it would be the best time to open it while everything is still fresh. You don't want to be well into your healing process, then open the box and it knock you back a few pegs. Think of it as pulling the bandaid off quickly.

 

haha, yeah man. I told you, I over think every little thing. I knew this was kind of a pointless post. And yeah, that is exactly how I saw it. No they never did - I guess it was the fear of perhaps maybe there were some things inside like pictures that ex would have been "returning" to me. Idk. Thanks for the reply.

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haha, yeah man. I told you, I over think every little thing. I knew this was kind of a pointless post. And yeah, that is exactly how I saw it. No they never did - I guess it was the fear of perhaps maybe there were some things inside like pictures that ex would have been "returning" to me. Idk. Thanks for the reply.

 

 

Even if there are photo's in there. Wouldn't NOW be the best time to face it? Get it all out there and done with so there's no surprises down the road with your healing progress?

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Even if there are photo's in there. Wouldn't NOW be the best time to face it? Get it all out there and done with so there's no surprises down the road with your healing progress?

 

Good point. Thanks for putting it in different light for me. I guess I saw it as if that were the case, I would want to be at that "indifferent" stage, where even if they were, I would remember them, then think, oh yeah I remember that...then move on.

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Go ahead and open it to get if over with.

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yeah, That's what Im gonna do. I wish I had done it this morning because now the wondering whats inside is gonna be on my mind. It's like Christmas as a kid all over again! HAH.

 

Thanks again,

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yeah, That's what Im gonna do. I wish I had done it this morning because now the wondering whats inside is gonna be on my mind. It's like Christmas as a kid all over again! HAH.

 

Thanks again,

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No it isn't! Because I wanna know what's in the box! :p

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Yea I'm subbed till I find out what's in the box!!

 

 

Barky

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If you are afraid that it will set you back, I'd just ask a friend to open it. There's nothing wrong with feeling fearful. Infact it's good that you're cautious and not willing to derail yourself.

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Everyone's waiting for the big reveal!

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Everyone's waiting for the big reveal!

 

I won't know until later, 6pm EST after work...I know, I'm just as anxious (not sure if thats a good thing or a bad thing...most likely bad hah)

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The anticipation!

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For God sake man it's a package from what you say from people who liked you unless they were part of Al-Quada. Open the box.

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I didnt wanna tell you but you left me no choice..

...It's my d*ck in the box

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It reminds of the movie UHF when the contestant on the game show has a choice between a prize of a snapper fish or going for what's in the box.

 

"uh.....I'll uh........I'll take the box. THE BOX"

Asian dude with heavy accent "He want's the box. What's in the box!? *opens box* NOTHING! NOTHING! STUPID! YOU SOOOOOO STUPID!!!"

 

But seriously, what's in the box, bro?

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What's in the box?

 

*Anticipation*

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Hopefully not something depressing cause I could use a pick-me-up today. I'm living vicariously through you for the day, OP

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Hopefully not something depressing cause I could use a pick-me-up today. I'm living vicariously through you for the day, OP

 

I hope the same as well. I think everyone here could use a pick-me-up everyday. After work I'll report back....probably 4-5 hours from now. Again, I'd hate for it to be something from my ex. That would really but me in a shyt mood.

 

Again, prepare for the worst, expect the best, and meet somewhere in the middle

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Meh...I'm guessing it's probably some personal items of yours being returned to you.

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Meh...I'm guessing it's probably some personal items of yours being returned to you.

 

Don't ruin this for me!

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So I opened the package. There was a really sweet, heartfelt letter from her mom and dad. I'll spare everyone the details, but they thanked me for the letter that I wrote them (mentioned how they were initially stunned and didn't know what to say). They mentioned a lot of the memories we all shared together - and that really hit home with me. Wished myself and their daughter happiness in whatever direction the future takes us. Some home made cookies were also included as well as some cat toys for my new kitten. They left it with "We love you, Mr & Mrs.)

 

I'm really at loss for words right now. This really brought back a lot of memories and emotions.

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I feel i deserve a cookie for waiting to hear what was in the box :p

 

Thats lovely of them to do, i hope it helps you move on.

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I'm really at loss for words right now. This really brought back a lot of memories and emotions.

 

Yeah, but look at it this way, they're good people that expressed sorrow on what's happening right now and expressed that they want nothing but the best for you. (similar to what you're getting here...minus the cookies.)

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