bafflio Posted November 7, 2013 Posted November 7, 2013 In like two days. Haven't seen her in half a year. She was in a relationship since I've known around a year ago but I had the biggest crush on her since I met her. I couldn't help but show stupid signs that I liked her. But I never ended up asking her out. I did tell her in our last meeting that I 'liked' her a lot. I left it at that thinking it'd be over but she contacted still from time to time and I obliged - till it just fizzled to silence. That silence lasted for around 3 months. Then I contacted her again last week because I missed her. I will be seeing her this week. We're just catching up for a quick coffee. I think I'll ask her out to something else. Then I will be going for the kiss - I don't know if she's still in a relationship. I just feel like I can't be a wuss no more. I met and went out with 5 girls to get over her but it didn't help. She's the only one that gets my heart beating out of control. I feel like I haven't really saw to the end of this. I want to see the end of this. Am I crazy?
Tayla Posted November 7, 2013 Posted November 7, 2013 end to what? Most folks would welcome a beginning and lasting relation. Crazy is not a medical term .... Will though advise that your mind needs to rule more then your feelings.... If you genuinely sense she is the "one" that captured your heart....then by all means work towards a wholesome relation. I question though if this is a case of wanting what you can't have... 1
todreaminblue Posted November 7, 2013 Posted November 7, 2013 if she has agreed to go out with you then that is a good thing, tell her how you feel or hold your peace and let her go its up to you......I know its scary if she hasn't repeatedly told you over and over again ...that she rejects you as a suitor, then try......otherwise if she has told you many times,(once is a just a guage of your interest sometimes for some women to see if you woudl have guts to ask after being told no forcefully) then you are not for her if she has repaeated it mor ethan once, respect her and her wishes and dont try unlss you can satisfy yourself with friendship while she si with someone else, which means she isnt the one for you so dont wait with her as a friend hoping it will change......sounds like to me if she agrees to go out with you on a mini date 'tis worth a try and then be at peace with what she decides, could be good or could be bad ....love is a risk......i hope that its good...the romantic in me wants it to be good for you....best of luck ....deb
Author bafflio Posted November 7, 2013 Author Posted November 7, 2013 if she has agreed to go out with you then that is a good thing, tell her how you feel or hold your peace and let her go its up to you......I know its scary if she hasn't repeatedly told you over and over again ...that she rejects you as a suitor, then try......otherwise if she has told you many times,(once is a just a guage of your interest sometimes for some women to see if you woudl have guts to ask after being told no forcefully) then you are not for her if she has repaeated it mor ethan once, respect her and her wishes and dont try unlss you can satisfy yourself with friendship while she si with someone else, which means she isnt the one for you so dont wait with her as a friend hoping it will change......sounds like to me if she agrees to go out with you on a mini date 'tis worth a try and then be at peace with what she decides, could be good or could be bad ....love is a risk......i hope that its good...the romantic in me wants it to be good for you....best of luck ....deb Yeah the thing is she has never said no. It's either she thinks I'm her friend (likely - but still confusing after what I said - probably I acted too much like a wuss) or she has interest. We shall see..
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