Anais Posted December 16, 2004 Posted December 16, 2004 Hi everyone. I am very excited about the holidays coming. It is going to be a perfect one for me. MY husband (we have LDR) will come. Some of my relatives will come too and we have planned few short trips all together. I was reading some posts here and thought to share my story with people who are single now. I separated from my first husband about 4 years before and moved to a different country. Not sure whose fault or decision it was but it just didn’t work out. We married when we where very young. We were together almost 10 years so the break up was really hard for me. Three months later he called and we thought we can give it a try. I was so happy. I never wanted my daughter to grow in a divorced family. However we still had lot of unsolved problems so he was the brave one to tell me a week after that he wants a new life! It was done via phone and I was in the middle of a big Christmas market in one of beautiful European cities. I was walking and crying. It was especially hard to see all happy couples shopping kissing, ice skating. I fact that I am single was more scary than the fact of I am divorcing him. The relationship had lots of damage and it was time to move on. I rushed and went into a new relationship with someone that I met online before I could recover from separation. It was a big mistake. I had a “happy holiday”, but then a not pleasure break up a year after. I hurt a nice person. Going online and meeting people was a good idea. I recommend if you are a single. Going into a relationship so fast was wrong. Leave all exes in past. Only because you don’t want to be alone you can do mistakes. I know it is not pleasure to have no one to hug during the holiday season. But here is my advice for you. There is someone else out there for you! Someone else who is the same way sad and maybe has the same background as you. Sometimes you hear people to say that only crazy people are on online sites. I thought if I am there and I am not crazy it means there are others just like me out there. If you are alone, go online dating sites, make friends, date and brighten up someone else and yours holiday with arranging a nice date. It might end up being the only time you see that person but you will be on the right way. The day you will meet your SO is not far. And having internet in these days we are not limited on our neighborhood. There is always someone just for you, don’t rush things and don’t stay in a hurting relationship. Merry Christmas!
Author Anais Posted January 13, 2005 Author Posted January 13, 2005 I wish we could delete not interesting threads. I have been exercising to compose something in really short time without dictionary. At least this won’t be in unreplied messages now.
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