My LDR story so far.

[Jonopeo]

My names Jonathan. I'm 16 and this is mine and Victoria's LDR story so far. Victoria lives in Houston Texas and i live in England. We met on a game and added each other on Skype. Not the best meeting story i know but it is what it is . After talking non stop for days and days we both had a good idea that something was going on with both of our feelings. After a couple of weeks had passed we had started to flirt more, admitted we liked each other. But we never asked the question. To be honest i felt because of the way we were and we considered ourselves together that it was unnecessary.

 

However i thought, just to make sure that she knows I'm serious, ill ask her the question. And obviously she didn't hesitate with her answer .

 

Because of the distance, there is obviously a significant time zone difference..... 6 hours. Yes it is absolute torture. But for Victoria; it is truly worth it. I spend every night up till stupid o'clock in the morning to help her with her homework, have fun and make her happy. Then we would both go to sleep together on Skype. Some times if she was a little busy i would sleep earlier and then she would be there when i woke up to make me laugh before going to sleep herself. At first this was horrible because i was very tired and exhausted. But its something you learn to get used to.

 

Months and months had passed and we started talking about if we would meet up, when and how. We discussed because of our ages it would be very hard for us to be able to see each other. And this was a killer. But i promised her i would find a solution.

 

A couple of days had passed and Victoria had proposed that she would come to England with her parents and visit for a week. This made me happy knowing she could come see me and experience England. But at the same time i simply could not come to terms with one week. But it was her only option due to her parents leading very busy careers. I explained that it would be nice for that to happen because at the time i was unsure what else i could do coming from a very traditional background with strict parents.

 

I sat down whilst she laid asleep on Skype; and planned what i would do in order to see her. I knew that i wasn't taking a week for an answer that's for sure!

 

I had been talking about Victoria to my Parents for a while but as far as I'm aware they did not know the true meaning of our friendship. As i was afraid to say anything as they would instantly prejudge. But one night i explained everything to my Mom and explained that i wanted to go meet her. We discussed it and had her obvious concerns and explained she felt uncomfortable with the idea. So i left it at that not wanting to push my Mom.

 

Victoria was blissfully unaware of my evil plan .

 

One night my Mother came into my room sat down and asked me to mute my microphone. So i did and went off cam. Victoria a little confused i think carried on with her homework. My mom asked me how serious i was about seeing Victoria. I explained and spilled all of my emotions. My mom kind of just sat there in shock. I said. Mom , with all respect I'm going to Texas to see Victoria. Its going to be for a month. I understand your concerns i really do but this is something i have to do. You are more than welcome to come with me. I would expect that you would want to. However you will need to tell me within the next couple of days because the flight prices were contentiously rising.

 

She asked what she could possibly do for a month. And i said i don't know i think it is a little pointless you coming other than seeing me safe in meeting her. She agreed but said she wasnt saying yes but wasnt saying no and would speak to my elder sister about the situation. Hopes were high! Finally could this be that easy!?

 

Well turns out my Sister also thought it was a fantastic idea i went and i should go alone. My mom actually agreed and i couldn't believe me eyes. However i did find out later it was their little plan for me to do this so i could save the money and feel like i accomplished something. I felt so grateful.

 

I made Victoria aware of what was going on and im afraid there isn't an emoticon on here to show how big her grin was. Made us both very very happy.

 

From this Victoria's mom offered to pay for my ticket. However i turned her down and said this is something that i have to do. However after looking at the financial side i had underestimated things on a massive scale. I needed to make at least £2,000. It killed me. However i promised Victoria that i was going to come. And i was not going to let her down.

 

I went back to my parents and explained that i could afford to buy my flight and take £400. However they told me this was not acceptable for emergencies. They wanted me to take at least $2,000. However they said they would pay half of my ticket for Christmas and birthday. I thanked them massively and accepted. After Victoria heard, She asked her mom to pay half my ticket for her Christmas and birthday. And that was agreed. I felt so bad but Victoria explained it would be the best birthday present she had ever received.

 

So both of our famalies sat down on skype and made a plan. We deicded what we would do ect ect when i would come. And i loved how much our Parents understood. And how much they helped. I was and still am very very grateful!

 

So now we are here. Flight booked! Only 225 days till i go.

(Pfft only that's like a life time)

 

Thanks for reading. Looking forward to meeting you guys and hearing your stories.

Jonathan.

[SherryEast]

Good luck and I hope you enjoy your time with her!!

[ThisGal]

Welcome Jonathan! You both are so very young, my parents would never let me do such a thing when I was a teenager; fortunately for you two you parents are very understanding, obviously. When I told my parents I was leaving for 3 months to stay with my b/f they freaked out and I'm in my late 20s But they later loved that I had a great time.

 

Anyway, you two seem mature. And your feelings for each other seem genuine. Just take things slow and enjoy each other's company. You will see her in 7 months! Seems far away but time will pass by quickly; the year is already over.

 

I hope you guys enjoy your time together. Have fun and be careful (hate to say it but no sex lol!! Too young for the adult stuff). I tell my nephew and nieces your age the same thing. Hahaha.

 

Keep us posted on your visit. Take care

[keithkat]

My best wishes for the both of you then. :-)

 

Do your responsibilities in your country on time to make sure there's gonna be no delay. :-)

[McMike]

Have a blast mate! The long wait will be worth it, I guarantee it.

[umirano]

I hope your RS is not / will not become volatile, you and your family made a considerable financial commitment into that RS. 7 months ahead is a long time at your ages.

 

Otherwise, congratulations, and I'm glad for the two of you.

[noskilljustluck]

Stay strong and goodluck. If you'll believe in yourself, then you'll make it~