This song explains exactly how I feel.

[Janni]

It's a danish song, but I will put the English translation next to each phrase. I just stumbled upon it today and it describes exactly how I feel. It's almost scary.

 

Svenstrup & Vendelboe - Hvor Ondt Det Gør (feat. Josefine) (How much it hurts)

 

Hvis du ku' se mig (If you could see me)

Se resultatet (See the result)

Af den løgn du levede med (of the lie you were living)

Alle de problemer (All the problems)

Det der lå bagved (What laid behind)

Du var et andet sted (You were somewhere else)

Du holder det inde (You hold it in)

Jeg ved du fortryder (I know you regret)

Du tør ikke sige det højt (You're afraid of saying it out loud)

Du var med hende, nattens forbryder (You were with her, criminal of the night)

Du lever med din løgn (You live with your lie)

Lever med din løgn (Live with your lie)

 

Jeg kender dine tanker nu (I know your thoughts now)

Du tror at du kan nå mig (You think you can reach me)

Men du svæver ensomt i et tomrum (But you're floating alone in empty space)

 

Ved du hvor ondt det gør? (Do you know how much it hurts?)

Tårer der løber hele natten (Tears streaming all night long)

Løbe så langt, langt væk fra dig (To run so far, far away from you)

Ved du hvor ondt det gør, når du indser hvem du er? (Do you know how much it hurts, when you realize who you are?)

Når du vågner og du savner en som mig (When you wake up and you miss someone like me)

Ser du kun den anden vej (looking the other way)

 

Spørger jeg retorisk, om hvor lykkelig (If I ask rethorically, how happy)

Ved du godt hvad svaret er (You know the answer)

Er hun euforisk (Is the euphoric)

Ved hun hvor ynkelig du var og stadig er? (Does she know how pathetic you were and still are?)

Alle de tårer (All the tears)

Der går til spilde (wasted)

Slukker den ild der brændte i mig (putting out the fire burning inside me)

Tiden den går og, intet står stille (Time passes and nothing stands still)

Jeg løber væk fra dig (I am running away from you)

Jeg løber væk fra dig (I am running away from you)

 

Jeg kender dine tanker nu (I know your thoughts now)

Du tror at du kan nå mig (You think you can reach me)

Men du svæver ensomt i et tomrum (But you're floating alone in empty space)

 

Ved du hvor ondt det gør? (Do you know how much it hurts?)

Tårer der løber hele natten (Tears streaming all night long)

Løbe så langt, langt væk fra dig (To run so far, far away from you)

Ved du hvor ondt det gør, når du indser hvem du er? (Do you know how much it hurts, when you realize who you are?)

Når du vågner og du savner en som mig (When you wake up and you miss someone like me)

 

Ved du hvor (Do you know how)

Hvor ondt det gør (How much it hurts)

Savne dig (Missing you)

Nu ser jeg kun den anden vej (Now I look the other way)

[Cali408]

I'm sorry you're hurting. But listening to sad songs isn't going to make you feel better. What you need to do is when he comes into your mind, think a negative thought. He cheated on you, you don't want him back. Second, don't daydream about him. No sad romantic movies either.

 

You need to train your head to get over him. The best way to get back at him is to live a good happy life. Not wallow in sad songs and misery. You're letting him win by doing this.

 

Settle the $ issues, but no contact. Send a check or something, but don't respond with how are you stuff.

[Janni]

I'm sorry you're hurting. But listening to sad songs isn't going to make you feel better. What you need to do is when he comes into your mind, think a negative thought. He cheated on you, you don't want him back. Second, don't daydream about him. No sad romantic movies either.

 

You need to train your head to get over him. The best way to get back at him is to live a good happy life. Not wallow in sad songs and misery. You're letting him win by doing this.

 

Settle the $ issues, but no contact. Send a check or something, but don't respond with how are you stuff.

 

I appreciate the post. But this isn't a sad song to me. This is a "You might regret, but I'm not taking you back no matter how much I hurt."-song. So it isn't sad to me. And I do avoid all kinds of romance. Believe me. I stay with unromantic things and empowering songs.

 

But the tip about thinking a negative thought, I'll try that.