So is this type of thing common in a breakup

[HeartBorken]

Pretty much not getting sleeping tonight. Not sure why. Anyway I'm not really looking for answers but just seeing if i can get a bit of hindsight from other people.

 

This was what she said throughout the whole break up process any thoughts on it.

 

First week during break up: "I no longer love you. I am angry at you and would need time to forgive you for emotionally abandoning me (She is mad because after she moved one month ago i fell into depression so i would barely talk) I want to forgive you but my heart won't let me"

 

Second week during break up: "I deserve better than you. If my friends where in this situation i would tell them to dump your ass. If i was to ever take you back it would be 5 years from now"

 

Third week during break up: "You should accept responsibility for making me leave and its your fault that we aren't together anymore. Just because your ready to try doesn't mean i am"

 

Fourth week during break up: " I don't want a relationship with you anymore right now. Maybe we will be together in the future. I want to be free and consider my other options. I'm not going to date around yet but if someone comes along my way who knows"

 

Also during the break up i texted her and called her but she ignored my calls. I told her that i was hurting about the break up and she said "i know you are. If you didn't hurt that would mean you didn't care"

 

 

 

Anyway after a few weeks of NC she called about a bill she knew i had problems fixing it (She just wanted to know if i fixed it. But she knew i couldn't so why ask. She has no money to help me with it) After the call i sent her a text saying that i didn't want her to call or text me anymore.

 

She called me an ******* and that she called because she was worried about me. (I understand being worried but i taught asking for that would be peaceful. Still kinda hurting with the break up so i didn't want her calling me or texting at least for now)..............

 

So any opinion on her personality and what not?

 

I personally see her as a devil now. but i don't know if her behavior is common or not.

Edited November 6, 2013 by HeartBorken
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[Inviv_girl]

Pretty much not getting sleeping tonight. Not sure why. Anyway I'm not really looking for answers but just seeing if i can get a bit of hindsight from other people.

 

This was what she said throughout the whole break up process any thoughts on it.

 

First week during break up: "I no longer love you. I am angry at you and would need time to forgive you for emotionally abandoning me (She is mad because after she moved one month ago i fell into depression so i would barely talk) I want to forgive you but my heart won't let me"

 

Second week during break up: "I deserve better than you. If my friends where in this situation i would tell them to dump your ass. If i was to ever take you back it would be 5 years from now"

 

Third week during break up: "You should accept responsibility for making me leave and its your fault that we aren't together anymore. Just because your ready to try doesn't mean i am"

 

Fourth week during break up: " I don't want a relationship with you anymore right now. Maybe we will be together in the future. I want to be free and consider my other options. I'm not going to date around yet but if someone comes along my way who knows"

 

Also during the break up i texted her and called her but she ignored my calls. I told her that i was hurting about the break up and she said "i know you are. If you didn't hurt that would mean you didn't care"

 

 

 

Anyway after a few weeks of NC she called about a bill she knew i had problems fixing it (She just wanted to know if i fixed it. But she knew i couldn't so why ask. She has no money to help me with it) After the call i sent her a text saying that i didn't want her to call or text me anymore.

 

She called me an ******* and that she called because she was worried about me. (I understand being worried but i taught asking for that would be peaceful. Still kinda hurting with the break up so i didn't want her calling me or texting at least for now)..............

 

So any opinion on her personality and what not?

 

I personally see her as a devil now. but i don't know if her behavior is common or not.

 

Best is to leave her alone, do not answer any of her text or phone calls. I dont know her so I cant tell about what kind of personality she has. But as what you stated above it is pretty clear that she doesnt want to be in a relationship with you anymore, her calls is probably just to check on you and if you still interested with her the same way

 

Breaking up is hurt, like hell but it does gets better with time. I've been there.. was a long road to go and now Im facing "almost" the same drama. What kind of life do I have? I dont know... sometimes Im asking myself why all this bad things always happen to me but no one could give me the answer including god!

[headinthecloud]

She sounds very young and is having difficulty dealing with the results of her actions. Stay NC and move on completely. Sounds like she did you a favor and you dodged a bullet.