Gypsie Posted November 6, 2013 Posted November 6, 2013 (edited) I have been single for a while now. My friend wanted to set me up with someone. She suggested this guy who was her sister's husband's work mate. Both she and her sister have said that this guy was looking to settle down and that it would be cool if us two met. At first they wanted to give his number to me. But I refused. I wanted the guy to call me so I gave them my number to give to him. Keep in mind. We have no idea what each other look like, or if we are even attracted to each other. This will, or would have been a blind date. LoL. Never been on one of those before. Thought it would be interesting, that is why I agreed to it. This guy ends up texting me. For 2 days we sent texts 2 each other, with him always initiating texts. All seemed good. Then he asked me out. I said that was interested in meeting and asked what the plan was? Got no response. After that 2 days of nothing. Then I decide to initiate something, had never before and thought maybe he was waiting for me to, wasn't sure, so sent a text on the Friday asking if he was free on the weekend. Got no response again. It has been 3 days since and no texts. Very confused and wondered why this guy even bothered asking me out if he wasn't going to follow through with it. Have heard that he is quite shy. Have not sent a text since. Don't want to force anything or end up being the one chasing him. But do think it is rude to ask someone out and never follow up on it. That is the main reason I am a bit annoyed about this and having a bit of a rant about it lol. Edited November 6, 2013 by Gypsie
Philosoraptor Posted November 6, 2013 Posted November 6, 2013 He lost interest/met someone else out in the world/got freaked out at the thought of a blind date going wrong. Either way, you lost nothing as you never met the guy. Stop letting someone you've never met stir up your emotions so much.
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