ss1891 Posted November 6, 2013 Posted November 6, 2013 I promised myself I wouldn't snoop, but I discovered from a mutual friend that he's back with his ex girlfriend who cheated on him. They were together for several years and broke up due to lack of interest. My relationship with him was passionate but unstable (and frankly unhealthy). Our constant break-up/make up cycle was exhausting. A part of me is extremely glad that I'm free to be with someone who treats me better. The other part is absolutely furious. How could he be with someone who cheated on him? Just 2 months after our breakup?? How is being with her a better alternative than being with me? I was always honest and caring...I put in every ounce of my energy into making the relationship better. Why would he do that to me? Has he really moved on so easily?
Sugarkane Posted November 6, 2013 Posted November 6, 2013 It makes me wonder why peopke do this aswell. One poster says the dumper doesn't see a future with you. But why do they see a future with someone else like this for example?!
Author ss1891 Posted November 6, 2013 Author Posted November 6, 2013 Maybe he is just having fun and not looking for a future with either one. Maybe the sex is better. Maybe she is prettier. Maybe she doesn't care that he likes to wear women's clothing. You will probably never know the real reason(s). Actually, none of these are possibilities haha. She lives in another country, so they are definitely not having sex. And not to sound cocky, but I am a definite improvement in terms of looks compared to his ex. I thought people usually return to their exes for the physical benefits, but he isn't getting any so I just don't understand. He definitely had self-destructive tendencies though...he was constantly anxious and moody. He loved drama and the thrill of the chase.
Fufu Posted November 6, 2013 Posted November 6, 2013 my relationship with him was passionate but unstable (and frankly unhealthy). Seems like your relationship with him in the first place wasn't healthy as what you mentioned. So who cares who he ended up with, as long as he is not you anymore. 1
Kate9292 Posted November 6, 2013 Posted November 6, 2013 I promised myself I wouldn't snoop, but I discovered from a mutual friend that he's back with his ex girlfriend who cheated on him. They were together for several years and broke up due to lack of interest. My relationship with him was passionate but unstable (and frankly unhealthy). Our constant break-up/make up cycle was exhausting. A part of me is extremely glad that I'm free to be with someone who treats me better. The other part is absolutely furious. How could he be with someone who cheated on him? Just 2 months after our breakup?? How is being with her a better alternative than being with me? I was always honest and caring...I put in every ounce of my energy into making the relationship better. Why would he do that to me? Has he really moved on so easily? He has crappy self esteem. And he didn't even treat you well? Be happy you're free of this mess. Save your energy and caring for someone that is worth it, not for train wreck like this.
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