mortensorchid Posted November 6, 2013 Posted November 6, 2013 The other week, I met this guy technically online. See this thread for more information: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/436397-tonight-s-internet-date He contacted me again through a Facebook IM, we saw each other very briefly on Halloween for a movie night. I had another event to go to, so after seeing him for about twenty minutes I said I was off to another place but we would talk soon. We had agreed to meet up on Saturday night for the BIG Halloween party. Long story short, the place was unbelievably crowded, the line was snaked around the corners, some were getting locked out thanks to their reaching capacity, and we both (individually) decided to call it a night without even seeing each other. Then the power went out and it was all bad for those left behind, but both of us were out of the place by then. He sent me an IM the other day, I sent him one yesterday. I said we should try to meet again since the odd circumstances of last week did not allow for it. I ended it by saying "Think of something for us to do then we'll try to coordinate", he said "ok". Was that wrong of me to do so? I do have a suggestion for just a movie night at my place on Saturday night as well.
Philosoraptor Posted November 6, 2013 Posted November 6, 2013 Eh, what's done is done. But you seem to have shifted all of the planning onto him which may not sit well. Depends all on if he sees it as pressure or not, as some people aren't as creative or ambitious as others. Hopefully he will come up with something and you two can find time for it.
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